| I think it's one of those where it depends what's said and who is saying it. I have a friend who when I just got into a size 16 advised me that it wasn't healthy - now that wasn't being said for my benefit it was being said for her. Another friend advised me to keep going as I looked happier and healthier and she wanted me to live a healthier life. The worst had to be someone who was really close to me who said in a really nasty voice 'you're going to be slimmer than me, hmph I'm not having that!' and then proceeded to go on a diet LOL |