| I do like to see posts like this Karion, and thank you.
I've been doing quite well on LL and have lost over 3 and a half stone in 12 weeks which is great. My friends often remind me of the difficulty of keeping the weight off and are sceptical too. I reply with 'let me get to my goal first and worry about keeping it off then'. However, I do worry as I am also a food addict, and if I didn't watch things could easily succumb to alcohol too.
I was at home in Dublin last week and despite my resolve to stick 100% to LL I relented to the lure of my favourite meals etc being prepared 'specially' for me. I decided to enjoy things in moderation - which I did, until Sunday evening. Then I had the crooked thoughts of 'I'm back on the diet tomorrow' etc. etc. and had to have a couple of sandwiches with mayo etc. and all the rest. I did this once everyone else went to bed and in retrospect I had been planning this most of the day, as I knew people would be going to bed early.
I couldn't bring myself to tell my cousellor this last bit as I'm ashamed. This is about old habits and it frightens me, even though I'm a long way from management. I realise how fragile my relationship with food actually is still, and you hit the nail on the head by saying 'I want' = 'I must have'!
Your method of dealing with your desires makes a lot of sense to me. They are going to be there for as long as they were there before - which in my case is a very long time. This post - along with your wonderful 'only lost one pound' post is going into my inspirational file, which I'm compiling for when I need to deal with 'real' food in the future.
I look forward to seeing other replies also,
Thank you
__________________ Trish x  Started Lighter Life 1st May 2007 Lost 4 stone on foundation But put it all back on again!
Started Atkins on 11th April 2010
Week 1 - 2kg
Week 2 - 3kg
Week 3 - 1kg
Week 4 +2kg -oops!
Week 5 - 1kg
Week 6 - 1kg
Week 7 - 0 
Week 8 + 1kg 
Week 9 - 1kg
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Week 12 - 0kg Goals 1. To get below 100kg 2. Have less to lose than I have lost - 3. Get into a size 16 top 4. Have a normal BP for 2 months 5. Have a BMI in the 20s 6. Join an exercise class |