6) To find me a man! Men are shallow unfortunately and seem to judge anyone over a size 10 as fat (sweeping statement there based on 3 years of being on my own and on MANY dates!). I'd like to be more active with a partner too (not just sex lol) so being smaller helps that.
We are.
We can't help it - we're simple creatures!
I'm the exception of course! I'm on Cambridge after all - I know what a mind-f**k (excuse the language - but it's the best way I can put it) being heavier than you want is. I value wit, intellect and humour..... because I have none of those
That said, from a looks / body point of view, I still fancy Helen Mirren (I'm 38 FFS!), love to see women with a woman's body and curves in all the best places! I dislike seeing women with figures like wee boys!
There you go - from one of the only blokes on the forum
My
thinspiration:
(1) To be a dad my kids are proud of on the beach in the summer!
(2) To not look like the hideous lump I pictured in boxer shorts in the mirror on 3rd April
(3) To feel good about myself - I mean really good about myself
(4) To not get knackered too easily with physical activity - kids, sports, walks, otherwise(!)
(5) I used to play rugby league - I want to look something like the clip I saw of myself on Sky Sports a few weeks ago.... 11st 7lbs and toned. That was only 6 years ago
(6) To fit into my clothes - everything was too small
(7) To buy a wardrobe of new clothes - for the right reasons, because everything is too big
(8) To not feel like the life is being sucked out of you because every time you look in the mirror you think "fat b**tard", making you miserable beyond belief
(9) To enjoy food (I love good food!), enjoy it in moderation, taste and savour the food, and not treat it as a comfort blanket.
There. Most of them are for me to be honest - I just want this. Badly!