ex boyfriends :(

[Jessie B]

Not sure how you can say 'I know I'm not bonny' though - just checked your pics & you're young, you're gorgeous, with legs up to your armpits!!! You might feel better in yourself if you shed some lbs, but don't let him shake your confidence - you look great right now.

He obviously knows how to push your buttons & what he said is just plain cruel. BUT if his life is as wonderful as he's making it out to be, why does he feel the need to do this to you? He's talking absolute twaddle.

The fact that he needs to treat you like cr*p to make him feel good about himself says so much about him.

You can do so much better than him - and don't you forget it. But sadly for him he's probably peaked as far as girlfriends go & won't get another like you. Ha!!!

Keep your head held high on Saturday, lovely

xxx

[wants2bnormal]

Thank you so much for your lovely comment jessie!!! xxxx

[hypa2008]

his loss hun. When you have loss your weight get a professional pic of yourself and send it to everyone who knows him including him and write what you had and lost. you will meet someone who will be perfect for you one day and his remarks will mean nothing trust me. My ex bf was nasty to me about my weight once we split up and still is but it dont effect me one bit these days because my bf of 2 years is a gem and most loyal, caring and honest man could ask for and his worth 100 of my ex who was also abusive ad nasty to me during the relationship. People like that obviously have demons to comtem with. ignore him his not worth time, space or energy.

[wants2bnormal]

Than you hypa, i would love to get a professional pic of me done when i loose the weight!! and send it to me it would be a totaly f you statement thats just going to spurr me on to loose weight!

[hypa2008]

no probs hun. You can do this . If you ever need someone to chat with feel free to

[treaco]

He's seriously not worth bothering about. you deserve someone who likes you for the person inside since thats what counts at the end of the day. and from experiance you always tend to find love when your least epecting it...and it makes it soo much more fun!!

[peppa]

I think the fat comment is a maximum hurt comment, and I know it's hard but ignore it. You say he was abusive etc so your well rid! whether you lose weight or not(you will) there is someone who is loving and caring for you. love etc is not based on weight. Jodie you are attractive and you need to believe this and when your confidence grows you wont put up with t*ts like this. Maybe his new gf is skinny but I hope she dumps his as* for being a bully

[andju]

What a sad git,just shows what a nasty piece of work he is.......you wont have to do anything hun cos once youve lost this weight,you can post some sexy pics of yourself on MSN unblock him and you wont need do do anything cos he will be giving himself the biggest FATTEST kick up his own arse!!(by the way I think you look fab now!!)
xx

[pink-sarah]

he sounds like a tit! if he has nothing better to do that call u names and brag about his new 'victim' i feel sorry for him, he obviously doesnt have a large attention span.hes obviously not very bright if all he can come up with is playground name calling... poor boy!

let him get on with it chick, he'll soon get bored, even though its REALLY getting to you, DONT show him that it is, that'll annoy him even more..

he probably knows what a dick he is but thinks hes clever..but theres this thing, its called KARMA... he'll get his 1 day, and i hope your there to laugh in his face..

poor boy, he might grow up 1 day!

[yappy]

Grrr, you are so much better off without him in your life. He is an absolute waste of space and undeserving of your attention and tears He ges off on making others miserable - don't let him do it to you anymore.

You are a beautiful person, both inside and out, and you will meet the man you deserve. Until then, enjoy yourslef. You're young and have just come out of a bad relationship - you deserve some fun x x

[claireg1977]

Really Jodie your well shot of him, he sound's like a stupid teenager!!
I bet his woman's name was palm!!

Dont keep his email to send him pictures of you, move on and close that door behind you.

He will get his come upping's! and you will get that DJ

[Mrs V]

Oh My!!!
Just read through your thread Hun!
I agree with everyone else on here and we cant all be wrong can we?? Obviously he thought so much of you as to mention that he is sleeping with other people (lets just hope he doesn't suffer a really nasty rash?!!)
He knew that comment about your weight would hit you where it hurt and that's why he has said it...naturally you are upset about your weight, but you are doing something about it. At the end of the day, you will loose the weight and be even more beautiful inside and out than you are.....he on the other hand will still be an evil, selfish individual who will end up a lonely old man.

Take care

Kerry-Ann

[Gloria19]

Count yourself lucky to have got rid of him chick, what a complete and utter waste of space... w@nker!!

Urgh! God, i'm angry myself at what he said to you.... !!!

Chin up, you can do a million times better than that ****stein! you'll meet a genuine lovely guy who will deserve you.

((hugs)) hope you feel ok today

[wants2bnormal]

Thanks guys for the support, he phoned me last to start again but i just hung up on him!! felt good! lol

[wannabeskinny]

just read this post men what a bunch of pricks, you go girl no one has the right to call people names had them thrown at me all my life, even when i was skinny i was told i was too thin, jesus you can never win be happy be confident and dont ever let anyone ever do this to you agagain hun x