not only hard with a family but with an unreasonable husband!! Went to see his aunt yesterday and all his cousins were round there as well - who he gets on with great, anyway she just casually said they are getting takeout tonight so come down and eat, i gave him the 'look' to say no!! as he knows im on LT adn he ignored me!! and accepted!!!!! anyway I said I might not be able to come as I was busy, after we left I was fuming with him, he kept saying just come and dont eat, i said firstly, it's not fair to make me watch evertyone eat takeout adn secondly I cant say no to eat when we have specifically been invited to eat. ANyawys he went on the whole just because its my family!! Oh FOr *!**!?!?!? I was at my mums this weekend and stayed 100%!! It was sooooo HARD! Why are you making me ruin it!? I said Ill stay at my mums, you go eat and then come pik me up wen ure done, anyway thsi went round and round, i tried to be reasonable and explain, he was having none of it. I 'had to' go, His aunt had realised I was on a diet so made some grilled chicken (home made) as well as getting takeout, so everyone insisted I ate, i had to, again not wanting to. This resulted in us not saying a word to each other on our 3 hour journey home, havign a massive argument wen we did get home, me sleeping in the spare room, and another argumetn this morning.
I feel rubbish. Men! Pfft. I just don;t understand why he did what he did and he can see no wrong. It's not like he doesnt get its TFR - IVe been on it for 9 weeks!! URGHHH!!!