
Originally Posted by
maybebabypowell
Hi Julz
I am still fat and yes I am happy, there are 2 reasons I am loosing weight:
1) To help concieving
2) I want to be able to buy clothes from any shop rather than being forced to the back of the shop and having a lot less choice!
If I was able to have the above I would not be loosing weight. I would not want to be abny bigger that purly for health reasons but as a person I am happy and confident. I think alot of the question you are asking is to do with upbringing.
I was accepted as being fat, apart from in school I have not been judged and now I am an adult I dont really care what people think of me, if you dont like it, dont look!
I do have my off days when I look at picstures and think OMG look at me - but I can almost guarantee that everybody no matter what size has though days!
I am happy - yes but I know to get what I want I have to loose weight!
Everyone is different and if your friend says she is happy then believe her, if she does not want to do anything about her weight then you can not change her mind. Just accept her for who she is and what she wants. Dont let it come between your friendship, she is the same person underneath after all.