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    Current Weight: 19st0lb
    Goal Weight: 8st0lb
    Goal Date: 31st DEC 2013


    BMI Information:
    Start BMI: 47.1
    Current BMI: 47.1
    Goal BMI: 19.8


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    Weight to Lose: 11st0lb
    % Lost 0%

    Unhappy please someone help me!

    hi, this is not my first attempt at LT 100% its proabably my 11th time and the longest i've lasted is two weeks, i get GREAT weight loss results in the first week 14lbs plus losses!i get lots of energy after the first four days and i desperately want to lose weight and fit back into my clothes and start going back out again! when i first started LT nearly four years ago i was my heaviest at 15stone but now i'm 19stone
    i'm so unfit i cant walk far or up the stairs, i am starting to get these horrible lumps on the inside of my thighs that are hurting so badly and its all down to my size! i'm only 5'4ft and 27


    the problem is i ALWAYS sabatoage myself even though i know i shouldnt and even while i'm doing it i'm crying cause i know its not what i want.

    last night i went to bed with a self help cd on repeat to help with starting LT today, i stayed in bed till nearly 3pm so i wouldnt have to think about food, my partner locked all the doors to the kitchen and yet i rang him and texted him abuse about where the key is, i used the back of a spoon to unscrew the handles and still couldnt get in, i tried banging into the door to break it, then i rememmbered some Christmas presents were upstairs that could be eaten so i ate them and den i nearly vomitted and once i recovered i scrabbled to find money to order a take away, it was GROSS so i threw it into the fire so i couldnt eat it, and guess what while it was burnning away i nearly put my hand into the fire to scoop soe of the food out!!!!!!!

    i'm sick arent i??? you all think i should be locked away in a padded cell?????????????????

    i'm not a happy fat person, i'm so confident and outgoing when i'm slim and yet i wont let myself diet.
    i've spent thousands on fancy gyms and other diets but stop after two weeks three at most!

    i've had LOADS of support on this site before so i feel ashamed and guilty for asking for help on this site again?

    i am in counselling so please dont suggest counselling.

    has anyone been like me and finally lost the weight???

    i really dont know what esle to do

    thanks for reading!!!xxx
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Hi Cherrygem, if you have done two weeks before then you know you can do two weeks again. you seem to be beating yourself up alot, why not give your self a break stop slagging yourself off, I dont know if this will help but maybe you could try re-reading your own post as if it were your best friend who had written it and think of what advice you would give her? We all seem to be able to be a good friend to someone else and say all the right things but not to our self. You are still YOU wether you are smaller or larger its still you with all the same qualities and skills. Good luck honey





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    what a beautiful thing to say!!!
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Cherrygem, I have just read a post of yours to someone on another thread. You were so supportive and encouraging towards her, you told her you were sure that this time she would be amazing. I think you should tell yourself the same xx





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    you are a very clever lady! i know its silly i can be so supportive to other people, even people that have hurt me so badly but yet i find it imposssible to be nice to myself. i think deep down i'm afraid of getting hurt while i'm slim again, i seem to find trouble when i'm slim and then i balloon back up due to comfort eating and then i'm back to square one!
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Quote Originally Posted by cherrygem View Post
    you are a very clever lady! i know its silly i can be so supportive to other people, even people that have hurt me so badly but yet i find it imposssible to be nice to myself. i think deep down i'm afraid of getting hurt while i'm slim again, i seem to find trouble when i'm slim and then i balloon back up due to comfort eating and then i'm back to square one!
    I can totally relate to your post Cherrygem I can feel more vulnerable when Im slim. Its strange that we are kinder to others than to ourselves, we need to be our own bestfriend first.
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    you are a breath of fresh air!
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Goal Date: When I get there!


    BMI Information:
    Start BMI: 55.4
    Current BMI: 38.2
    Goal BMI: 27.1


    Statistics:
    Total Weight Loss: 7st8lb
    Weight to Lose: 4st13lb
    % Lost 30.9%
    Hi Cherry. There are a lot of new starters at the moment so now could be a great time to try again. Post on here everyday, don't hide away if you've eaten something or feel down just keep posting and we will support you all we can. It doesn't matter if you've managed 2 weeks and then had a blip, or even one day and had a blip whats important is that you carry on again the next day so all is not lost. Start over but KEEP, KEEP POSTING. Best wishes.
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    Started LT 07/09/12 - 24st 7lbs

    Today 24/06/13 - 16st 13lbs. (Total lost 7st 8lbs!!)

    Round 1 of LT (Sept 2012 - Feb 2013) - Starting weight 24st 7lbs, finishing weight 18st 2lbs -Total weight loss 6st 5lbs.
    Round 2 (started 03/06/13)- Starting weight 18st 7lbs:-
    Week 1 - 15lbs
    Week 2 - 4lbs
    Week 3 - 3lbs

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    thanks so much, i get so ashamed and i feel i let the side down when everyone is doing so so well!but i will try, thanks xxx
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Current BMI: 38.2
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    Weight to Lose: 4st13lb
    % Lost 30.9%
    Quote Originally Posted by cherrygem View Post
    thanks so much, i get so ashamed and i feel i let the side down when everyone is doing so so well!but i will try, thanks xxx
    You have nothing to feel ashamed about. We all have issues involving food or we wouldn't be here. We all have tough days, days when we just can't cope, I have shed many tears on this diet! You haven't let anyone down least of all yourself but if you want to try again on LT then come back. You sound so down about your weight and I know all that could change following a few weeks on LT. So don't give up - come back!
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    Started LT 07/09/12 - 24st 7lbs

    Today 24/06/13 - 16st 13lbs. (Total lost 7st 8lbs!!)

    Round 1 of LT (Sept 2012 - Feb 2013) - Starting weight 24st 7lbs, finishing weight 18st 2lbs -Total weight loss 6st 5lbs.
    Round 2 (started 03/06/13)- Starting weight 18st 7lbs:-
    Week 1 - 15lbs
    Week 2 - 4lbs
    Week 3 - 3lbs

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    the ladies on here are a real ray of sunshine!!!
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Goal Date: 03.08.2013


    BMI Information:
    Start BMI: 44.1
    Current BMI: 44.1
    Goal BMI: 24.6


    Statistics:
    Weight to Lose: 7st2lb
    % Lost 0%
    Hy cherry gem please don't feel ashamed I'm re starting tomorrow I was meant to start on the first but I'm 9 days late iv been on this diet so many times I lost count I'm the same as you 2 weeks tops and iv given into temptation my boyfriend used to say he ain't gettin me takeaway coz I weren't mention to eat so I started lying telling him I'm on recede when I knew fully well I was talking sxxx so ur not the only one it is really hard to motivated something that helps me is keeping motivated wen I'm running around I never think about food it's wen I'm home alone
    I know what my problem and many others are I have an addiction to food and because its around us every day it's harder ull be fine and please don't put ur self down xxxxx








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    yeah its when i'm lonely or when i dont feel loved/important/respected i use food as medicine
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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    Goal Date: 03.08.2013


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    Start BMI: 44.1
    Current BMI: 44.1
    Goal BMI: 24.6


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    I do exactly the same but I am really trying to think positive stay calm wen i feel like I'm going to explode and take one day at a time the thing before is I wanted to see results straight way I didn't wanna wait 9mnths but my boyfriend always says positive things he told me a 9months is gonna come so if that's how long it takes that's how long it takes
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    see thats what i cant understand, i cant understand why i cant see this diet as a gift, like if i tried to lose this much weight through diet and excerise it could take two years, but with this it just take months and yet i wont allow myself do it
    GOAL
    1) do one day100% [19] (3L water per day)
    2) let me finish one week 100% [18]
    3) lose one stone
    4) lose my 'tummy shelf'
    5) 6th July beach hol!!! [17]
    6) 3rd August meeting EX-BOYFRIEND!!!! [15.5]
    7) 13th Sept wedding [14]
    8) Hallowen [13]

    [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wh918B9/]

    WEIGH IN Mondays:
    27th May - 1st week =
    3rd June - 2nd week =
    BEING SLIM WILL ALLOW ME TO:

    1) make my son and family proud, stop embarrassing them
    2) show myself that i can be in control, responsbile and a success
    3) to show others that i can be a success, bad exes
    4) to be able to walk more than a few steps without collapsing or chaffing
    5) to stop hair growth
    6) to try and have more kids
    7) to be able to wear clothes that i WANT to wear
    8) to start going back out
    9) to make friends again
    10) to get a boob job
    11) to be the old me
    12) to be happy and fearless
    13) make everyday tasks easier
    14) make special occasions enjoyable rather than a fear



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