Thread: xx.kirsty.xx Now a very proud mummy to my beautiful daughter! x

No fair I want salad! (as a former big girl I never thought I would crave salad). I'm going to make hubby take me out for salad sometime soon, and have a side order of chips

Honestly hun ive never enjoyed something so much in all my life!!

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sounds nice actually. Ive been right in to meat. Every nite i fancy shepards pie, or steak lol

Haha i fancy cold foods at the min mostly.

Im thinking what i can have for my tea already lol

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I'll be glad when i get my appetite back. I look forward to a meal then get it and am full up after a few bites. Then come 11pm i could eat for scotland!!!

Hehe i kno what u mean hun- today is the first day ive been able to eat properly!

I usually make something start gagging (sorry if tmi) then cant eat it

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Ive had a horrible day up to now

My oh has moved out!?!? I dont kno what to do and feel stuck....have i now got to prepare myself for being a single mum?

Sorry i kno this is off topic but i just had no where else to go???

He thinks im being irresponsible my not getting rid of my two beloved cats. Since i found out i was pregnant oh promised he would do the litter. I find today i can smell the litter all around y flat and ask when he last done it?!?! He cant even remember!!!

Just dont kno what to do

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Oh hun I'm sorry to read this, but perhaps it'll blow over if it's over the cats. It's a stressful time sometimes. ((Hugs))

Nip down to the chemist and get some gloves, a box of 'em and you'll be able to do the cat litter. just chuck the gloves away after and wash up well with an anti bacterial scrub type hand soap.
I am still mucking out my horse and know LOADS of horsey owners who have done this all through pregnancy. I know cats are a bit more serious for their mess but you can keep clean.

As for the decision to get rid of them, well I can't help with that. I'm a dog person and never really 'got' cats.. but again I know people who have had cats and it's ok by social services to adopt / foster babies when you have them, so that would be good enough for me. They limit it to 2 just for interest.

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Oh hun im soo sorry. Men can be really weird at times. Heres hoping he wakes up to what hes doing soon.

If you need to chat email me babybaillie @ msn.com

huge hugs Kirsty, not what you need right now! Maybe he's still trying to get his head around the whole baby thing in general, men take a lot longer to adjust to pregnancy and can be funny!

Lots of us here for you if you need to talk x

Thanks hun just bought some gloves

I dont believe in getting a pet and getting rid of it they r for life

I love them to bits so there no chance they r going hehe

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I think ur quite right. Just be 110% careful when cleaning them.

Take it easy xx

Originally Posted by MrsDannyDyer

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Oh hun im soo sorry. Men can be really weird at times. Heres hoping he wakes up to what hes doing soon.

If you need to chat email me babybaillie @ msn.com

Thanks hun- hopefully a few days of him living at his dads will make him realise how much i actually do for him!

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Originally Posted by shelbell

huge hugs Kirsty, not what you need right now! Maybe he's still trying to get his head around the whole baby thing in general, men take a lot longer to adjust to pregnancy and can be funny!

Lots of us here for you if you need to talk x

I think he is really childish, yesterday he said he wanted us to move abroad?!?! Y wud i move when pregnant i would wave goodbye to my family, job, meternity leave etc etc.

He has only ever been in college and does a few hours (about 15) per weeks as a doorman so is completely dependant on me. he doesnt understand y im to tired to sit up late watching tele or y i cant make him his tea when i dont feel well??!!

I suppose ill leave him to it- i am not ringing him though he can sulk all he wants. As for the cats, they will snuggle me in bed wether my legs r shaved or not lol

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Ello hunni!

I feel pretty much the same as you!!

Glad i found this on here!!

How you feelin today? i saw on your facebook your stressed??? xxxx

Glad you managed to get the gloves ((hugs)). I'm not one for re-homing either, but have had to rehome a dog once - long story. It was really hard to do and I do wonder how he got on whenever I think of him. I can totally understand not wanting to rehome them. Fact is, they could well be fine and there be nothing to worry over. There are always ways of keeping babies seperate from certain animals and babies don't have to be 'sterile' all the time, I think they build better protection if they aren't to be honest.

I hope you manage to talk things through and he comes home ((hugs)) but remember.. us women are STRONG! if something happens and you are a single parent, you CAN do it.. always believe that! ((hugs)) Graham and I had some issues when Erin was small, we'd only been married about 10 months and I honestly thought it was the end of us, it very nearly was. A friend of mine made me realise that I didn't HAVE to make the relationship work, but if it did it was because we wanted it to.

Look after yourself and chat to those friends and family of yours you need to for support. ((hugs))