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Honest Opinion Needed
I know I'll get a good variety of answers to my question that's one of the reasons for posting this.
My daughter is 21, lives alone & has been single since March. She said she just wants to have fun & isn't interested in another long term relationship.
Anyway a few weeks ago she met an Irish lad the same age as her, he is here working until Christmas & then goes back to Ireland, she is fine with this as it fits in with her.
My question is, he is going to Ireland in a couple of weeks for the weekend & has asked her to go with him, she is undecided, she wants to go as she has never been. She is sensible won't put up with any messing & has already stayed over his house here.
I know she will look after herself & don't really see what the difference is if she spends the weekend with him here or in Ireland.
What are your thoughts?
If I was her I would go and have some fun.Life is too short and it may be her only chance to go.
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She should go and enjoy herself
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I agree with all the above comments. As she knows her time with him is potentially limited I think it would be a shame for her not to take the opportunity to go with him to Ireland. You never know, she might decide she wants to be with him for longer, so it might be a good idea for her to scout out his home town xx
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I agree with everybody else. Life really is too short, she should go and have fun and enjoy it. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out but it won't be the end of the world and at least she knows she gave it a try. Sometimes you have to take a risk I think x
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If they get on it sounds like a nice trip to me! Any reason she is unsure? If it was my daughter I'd say go if you want but take enough money do you aren't completely relying on him for accommodation etc if there was a problem or anything.
Yes she gets on fine with him. No reason she is unsure just that is seems a bit random going to Ireland with a guy she has just met.
I said go, but had the same reservations as she has.
good point about the money, thanks
She sounds like a sensible girl and as the others have said - life is too short. She does right for wanting to have fun and enjoy herself. I'd say go for it!
I have only been to Ireland once - Dublin on a college trip. I loved it and would definitely go back. She will have a great time
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