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    Negative comments !!!!

    I'm going to have a rant so here goes ! I have a "friend " who also struggles with her weight but has never done anything about it which is none of my business it's up to her. It's her body although she has lots of health issues bad hips knees ..... I've not seen her for a while due to us both having other commitments but keep in contact via text messages . I saw her mum and mum in law recently and apparently I have lost loads of weight and look really ill !!!!! I'm fuming just because I've decided to take control and sort out my weight problem and a big part was for health I'm on HRT and was advised by my Dr to loose weight plus I started getting knee problems myself which I no longer have . If I was so ill don't think I'd be able to run 5 miles twice a week and cycle 30 miles ! Sorry for going on but I bet I'm not the only one who have had negative comments . My other friends and family say how proud they are of me and how much better I look guess some people don't like it when others succeed. Weight loss is not easy for any of us and is a life long commitment and I am so impressed by anyone who gives it a go to improve themselves so well done fellow members xx
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    Aw its sad she is so jealous...maybe she will eventually take,inspiration from you and do something about her own weight and health..dont let her get you down..you are better than that as you have made the improvement all on your own..its sad when friends cant be supportive but hold your head up and be proud of what you are doing. I hope she learns from you and makes the right move herself...and then apologises to you
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    "The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves. ~William Penn, Some Fruits of Solitude, 1693"

    Jealousy is not an admirable quality, your anger is a wasted emotion, as clearly she feels so bad about herself she is projecting this towards you and your success. Feel proud of yourself and your achievement!
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    Sounds like jealousy to me - green eyed monster x
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    I've got a friend like that, a week after having a go at me for being on SW, she joined herself!
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    I agree. I know it's not nice to have negative comments made when you have made a positive decision to improve your health and eating habits but don't waste your anger on her pettiness and jealousy. Be proud of your achievements, that's the best retaliation!
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    I'll be honest, that sounds like envy talking. I know it's not nice to hear comments like that, but try to remember where they're coming from
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    Your friends and family who are telling you how proud they are of you are the people you need to be listening to. They're the ones who you are going to be around for the most part, so try not to pay attention to anyone else who is trying to put you down for your amazing achievement so far. On a side note.. cycling 30 miles?? I think that'd just about kill me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Polished View Post
    I'll be honest, that sounds like envy talking. I know it's not nice to hear comments like that, but try to remember where they're coming from
    there is that song "we hate it when our friends become successful" chin upxxx
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    Thanks everyone I'm over it now funny thing is just makes me more focused to get to where I want to be so it sort of back fired . Good luck everyone xx
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    Quote Originally Posted by nicolajr1986 View Post
    Sounds like jealousy to me - green eyed monster x
    not me! lol

    she sounds like a bitter witch, you are fab. x
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    Quote Originally Posted by katsmad64 View Post
    Thanks everyone I'm over it now funny thing is just makes me more focused to get to where I want to be so it sort of back fired . Good luck everyone xx
    Great to hear ..you go girl
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    Quote Originally Posted by katsmad64 View Post
    Thanks everyone I'm over it now funny thing is just makes me more focused to get to where I want to be so it sort of back fired . Good luck everyone xx
    Great! Don't let things like that get to you, good luck to you too!
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    By following SW, you're not under eating or starving yourself thin. You're getting fit and healthy and should be proud of how far you've come. I had a friend who commented on my weight loss recently and she asked my what is my goal dress size and I told her my goal is to be a happy and healthy size 10 and she told me that I shouldn't want to get that thin and being curvier is better. I was slightly taken aback and a bit offended as she used to be a size 8-10 but in the last two years she's gone to a size 12-14 and keeps complaining that's she's gained weight and is unhappy. People are beautiful in all sizes and as long as you're happy and healthy there's nothing wrong
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    Quote Originally Posted by bethlow23 View Post
    By following SW, you're not under eating or starving yourself thin. You're getting fit and healthy and should be proud of how far you've come. I had a friend who commented on my weight loss recently and she asked my what is my goal dress size and I told her my goal is to be a happy and healthy size 10 and she told me that I shouldn't want to get that thin and being curvier is better. I was slightly taken aback and a bit offended as she used to be a size 8-10 but in the last two years she's gone to a size 12-14 and keeps complaining that's she's gained weight and is unhappy. People are beautiful in all sizes and as long as you're happy and healthy there's nothing wrong
    Well said people act a bit strange sometimes when others are achieving their goals guess it hits a raw nerve ! Here's to being healthy and happy xx





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