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    Underwear for big women without big boobs... any advice?

    Thanks ladies. Think it's going to have to be an online job!
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    Underwear for big women without big boobs... any advice?

    Thanks, I'll have a look at them x
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    Underwear for big women without big boobs... any advice?

    Thanks, I'll have a look at them x
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    Underwear for big women without big boobs... any advice?

    I need some new underwear, but it's really not working! I'm a 42B though sometimes a C, generally a B. There are hardly any places that I can find that do the higher back sizes but without just having higher cup sizes too. I'm fat but have no boobs! Anything I find is pretty... plain and...
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    Underwear for big women without big boobs... any advice?

    I need some new underwear, but it's really not working! I'm a 42B though sometimes a C, generally a B. There are hardly any places that I can find that do the higher back sizes but without just having higher cup sizes too. I'm fat but have no boobs! Anything I find is pretty... plain and...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    No, no update. I haven't seen him since as we live a few hours apart. Next time I'll see him is end of the month, either he'll be here or me there again. So we'll just see how it flows really, no rush or anything. Though I think it'll eventually mean me making the first move as he will just keep...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    My flatmates are out of the house plenty of the times with work and uni, I've got reading week at uni so I'm off. And my bedroom is pretty far from both of theirs. So is fairly private really.
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    I did have a fab time, but not in that way! It was nice having some time with him just chilling and cuddling and stuff. His family were all around so I don't think I would have wanted anything more to happen. I'm seeing him again in 2 weeks but he'll be here... here being my house with no...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    He's allergic to wine, but that won't stop me having a few!! To be honest I don't feel in the slightest bit nervous about anything, because I know there's no pressure at all. There's no expectations. I'm going to see him same as always and if anything happens, it happens. But it'll just happen...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Well I'm heading to his tomorrow for the weekend, we'll see what happens I guess! We've said that what happens, happens. But don't want to plan. So we'll see :)
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Well sounds like there's hope for me yet! I know my confidence has definitely gone up as I've lost weight, but there's still a way to go! I have a feeling that all of this is going to play a big part in sorting out my confidence issues. For a long time I've found it impossible to think that...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    He's just so incredibly fit it makes me feel pretty unfit sometimes. He goes to the gym, a lot. Is toned and very sexy! I often wonder what he sees in me to be honest, not that I'm complaining! I'm going to see him on Saturday, staying over and coming back Sunday, or whenever, may end up being...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Oh wait, the nightdress link is wrong! It's not the long one, it's the chemise. This one... Spot Print Satin Chemise - Marks & Spencer
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    He really i a good guy, I'm just realising how much! There's so many things about him that make me feel like I'm totally falling for him. As soon as he wakes up he'll text me, and it's always the same start, good morning beautiful. I love that though sometimes he calls me sexy, more than that...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Sorry to hear that, sounds a real shame. I guess if it was meant to be it would have been. Is your confidence any better now?
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Well, I went shopping. Evans was a nightmare. It was a big store but had hardly anything lingerie wise. They had proper PJs, nothing else. La Senza had a big sale on so I had a look in there. Size was was awkward because I'm the top end of their back range, and they don't have a lot in that...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Thanks Jim, I was hoping for a guys opinion too!
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    I know his partner before was slim and pretty, and I know he was gutted about them breaking up. So it does make me feel a bit nervous I guess, I don't want to be compared to that when I won't match up. The thing is, as well as making me feel nervous, I feel excited too. I'm excited about the...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    That's what I feel like. I know that I can trust him, and there's no-one else I've wanted to be with. But I don't want to get caught up on it. I don't want it to take away from anything, because I feel nervous and self conscious. Know what I mean?
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    You guys have mentioned nighties and stuff, it all sounds good, but I don't know where to start. In terms of size ranges, I don't know a lot of choice. Other than Evans, I don't think they do sexy! Any recommendations? Somewhere with stores rather than just online would be better.
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    I just want to say thanks to you guys, I still feel pretty nervous about it. Funnily enough, not the sex bit, at all. Just the naked bit. But I've realised that maybe I'm making a bigger deal out of it than I actually should be. It's just all new to me, for so long I've felt so rubbish about...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    Maybe I just need to try and make myself feel good on many levels... so pamper myself... wear something that I know I feel good in... underwear that makes me feel good (I think I'd need to by this!)... and just hope that as I get closer to being naked, because I'm wearing things which make me...
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    No I know, it's pretty obvious that I'm carrying a spare tyre or four! But somehow it's different him seeing me when I'm dressed to taking my clothes off and him seeing me naked, no dressing it, no trying to look better, just being exactly what I am... fat.
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    A question about relationships/confidence etc.

    Sorry, was repost, didn't think the first one had gone through!
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    A question about sex as an overweight person...

    I can't believe I'm going to ask this question, but here it is. I don't know whether I'm technically allowed to ask this here, if I shouldn't have because the topic is against rules, then I apologise. So I've recently started seeing a guy, and it's going pretty well, we both seem to really...
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