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Well I'm guessing that he doesn't. If his personality is as hot as you say he is physically, I would count yourself very lucky and not let him go!

Maybe that's the bit I need to work on!

Glad it went well for you Alex! I on the other hand am giving up now lol

Thanks everyone. Definitely not cutting down my options to just him. Way I see it until we're at a point where we (we as in me and any guy) say that we're officially together, then im not going to limit my options. Not saying ill sleep around with any and every guy, im not like that, obviously...

Well he text me last night at like 11pm and had only just got home from work, said hes had a really bad few days. I didnt get the text til a bit later though and replied but havent had anything back. Will have to see what happens i guess. Im leaving it up to him to be the first person to text at...

Mince... thats what i keep trying to work out. Is it because he's rubbish at texting, which he is. Or because he aint interested. The weekends are generally choca block for him, rushing from one thing to another so weekends are quiet on the text front anyway. And i know these weekend he was away...

No i know, and i agree. Thats why im like hmm. But what i mean is that its not actually all that out of the ordinary for him anyway, so isnt necessarily cause of meeting him and he has text since ust not in a while. So i just dont know how to take it.

Well, so i met him on Tuesday, he said about going for a drink or something again soon. Seemed like it went well but its now Tuesday and i havent heard from him since Thursday so maybe hes changed his mind! He may just have been busy though i suppose, we shall see i guess. I dont know whether to...

Mince youre right, i know you are. And i tell myself that all the time but i still can never make myself bite the bullet! Well I say never, ive managed to a couple of times and first one went well but nothing came from it but we're friends. And this one... well who knows. I still havent had a...

He can be really bad with texting anyway so i cant read too much into it really, though i still am most of the time! He will often take a couple of days sometimes to text back, especially over the weekend. I think once he even took a week or so and then text being like im sorrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyy. I...

oh i know, im not one of those people that thinks the guy has to call first. i text him that night and he replied. since then ive tried texting him, a few times. i havent since yesterday and havent had a reply yet and its been a few days. So i might just give up! Dont think i should text him...

Well, so i met him on Tuesday, he said about going for a drink or something again soon. Seemed like it went well but its now Sunday and i havent heard from him since Thursday so maybe hes changed his mind! He may just have been busy though i suppose, we shall see i guess. Men!

Well, so i met him on Tuesday, he said about going for a drink or something again soon. Seemed like it went well but its now Sunday and i havent heard from him since Thursday so maybe hes changed his mind! He may just have been busy though i suppose, we shall see i guess. Men!

Thanks ladies :)

Just want to say than you to all of you. I really appreciate all the advice and experiences that youve shared, especially as im basically a stranger! x

Thank you to all of you for sharing your thoughts, experiences and advice. Especially sam, im sure that cant have been easy to do. I did go and meet him and actually it was a lot better than I thought. While im sure he noticed my extra weight (its kinda hard to miss!) he really didnt make it...

Sorry, its been a really busy week with work! I did go and meet him and actually it was a lot better than I thought. While im sure he noticed my extra weight (its kinda hard to miss!) he really didnt make it obvious at all, so maybe he wasnt bothered. He said that he wanted to do something again...

Thanks for both of your posts. It's great to know that its not just me who feels this way. I think next time he brings it up i'll agree to it. I think! :s

Thanks katie. I think i ust need to take the bull by the horns and get on with it. I guess if it doesnt work out i havent really lost anything and ill soon get past it!

Maybe i just need to stop being quite so pathetic and take a chance.

Aww I'm glad theres a happy story there, makes me think maybe its not all bad! See everyone says how lovely a person I am. It seems that if guys went on personality it would be fine. Its just a shame about the spare tyres I carry on my stomach!

Thanks katie, its great to hear people doing so well, is a real boost!

I'm very picky with photos though, queen of the untag! They're pretty much all face and boobs up! But i know what youre saying, its what i keep trying to tell myself. But at the same time I find it so hard to actually accept and believe, that he wouldnt care. Its just not the stereotypical guy i...

Thanks Cheryl! x

So ive got a question and was wondering if anyone could share their experience or advice with me. Im 22, ive never had a proper relationship. I mean, there have been guys that ive been out on a few 'dates' with and stuff, i hate the word date, makes me feel about 13! But never really turned...

So ive got a question and was wondering if anyone could share their experience or advice with me. Im 22, ive never had a proper relationship. I mean, there have been guys that ive been out on a few 'dates' with and stuff, i hate the word date, makes me feel about 13! But never really turned...

So ive got a question and was wondering if anyone could share their experience or advice with me. Im 22, ive never had a proper relationship. I mean, there have been guys that ive been out on a few 'dates' with and stuff, i hate the word date, makes me feel about 13! But never really turned...

I picked up a weeks supply of cambridge weight plan stuff from my consultant on weds and im starting today. Ive got about 5 or 6 stone to lose so im here for the longhaul! Ive had enough of being fat now and need to do something about it. Some of the photos and stories on here are a real...