Well done on making that decision and good luck on your weight loss journey sweetheart. Remember it's one day at a time, be kind to yourself, and keep your eye on the prize! A slim and healthier you!
I have been over weight my whole life. I was a 10.5 lb baby (ouch for my poor mum!!) a chubby child, a big teenager, and an overweight adult. Saying that I've always looked after myself and tried to make the best of my appearance, whilst hiding behind a bubbly personality. I've been on a diet since I was 9 and lost the same stone and gained it numerous times!!!
Something finally clicked a couple of years ago and I started calorie counting and I haven't looked back. I still go out to McDonald's weekly with my kids, I have chocolate and treats, but I count calories and exercise regularly. And if I have a blow out, which I think we all need sometimes : ) I don't throw away the whole week, or even the whole day, I get back on that wagon the next meal time. Sometimes we beat ourselves for enjoying food, but why should we??!!! Life is for living and food is a pleasure. Enjoy it!!
Anyway, sorry for the essay, just wanted to wish you well on your journey. All I would say is maybe you should start on slightly higher daily calories, maybe 1500 then drop to 1200 when you get lighter. I was losing well on 1700 then dropped to 1500 now I am 1200 to 1400 depending on appetite. If you start too low your body will get used to having very little and you will get hungry But obviously do what suits you.
All the best x,