Littleslimmingbee
Gold Member
Saturday, Oh and i went into town to do some shopping.
I wanted to go to cabot circus and House of Fraser is there and there are plenty of resteraunts that i know i can eat in, have yummy food and still be oober good.. but OH wanted to go to park street. theres not loads there, but there a shops he likes and doesnt get to visit there. Fine i said.
So after an hour trying to park, because h refuses to pay for parking, - its a silly man thing i find..-
We finally get there, im starving and im flippin freezin, not a good combo. I stay calm when he insists on visiting a few shops before feeding me. so we start looking at resteraunts and its becoming even more apparent as i suspected, it was going to be difficult. after looking at 4 different menus we carry on shopping and i text aqa for advise LOL. (still remaining clam despite being hungry and cold)
then we go into a resteraunt that AQA has told me is suitable for EE and is low on syns on the slimming world plan.
(bollocks.. )
My frickin ass. Even if i was gunna be naughty there still wanst anything on the menu i was fussed with..
Oh insists on leaving if im not going to be happy.. not out of the kindness of his heart, out of frustration..
trying to stay calm to avoid situation getting worse i suggest waiting till we get home..
Oh blow up..
why is this such an obbsession..
when are you gunna learn that gaining a few lbs isnt a big deal..
when will you relax..
you dont understand how frustraing and awkward it is trying to find somewhere YOU can eat..
dont you just love being humiliated in public..
its not an obbsession i say..
im trying to healthy and to keep on top of my weight..
im not eating somthing i dont want to eat just to make you happy..
no joe, i may not gain all 4.5 stone back in one go but it will come back if i dont keep an eye on it..
joe why is it so hard to understand that im just trying to be good so i can let my hair down and relax over xmas..
joe, do you not think i relax ever? what the hell do you think iv been doing when i gain every now and then, do you think i gained from eating flippin salads?
I really don't know.. he applogised after and said he just got wound up and he knows he shouldnt have yelled..
but this isnt the first time he's called it an 'obbsession'
infact once, he said infront of a waiter.. why dont you just eat proper food... because i was trying to figure out what was best on the menu, ...
i let it go but looking back i'm actually quite miffed.
Sometimes hes so understanding and supportive but it worries me that he feels differently as things like this slip out during arguements?
I wanted to go to cabot circus and House of Fraser is there and there are plenty of resteraunts that i know i can eat in, have yummy food and still be oober good.. but OH wanted to go to park street. theres not loads there, but there a shops he likes and doesnt get to visit there. Fine i said.
So after an hour trying to park, because h refuses to pay for parking, - its a silly man thing i find..-
We finally get there, im starving and im flippin freezin, not a good combo. I stay calm when he insists on visiting a few shops before feeding me. so we start looking at resteraunts and its becoming even more apparent as i suspected, it was going to be difficult. after looking at 4 different menus we carry on shopping and i text aqa for advise LOL. (still remaining clam despite being hungry and cold)
then we go into a resteraunt that AQA has told me is suitable for EE and is low on syns on the slimming world plan.
(bollocks.. )
My frickin ass. Even if i was gunna be naughty there still wanst anything on the menu i was fussed with..
Oh insists on leaving if im not going to be happy.. not out of the kindness of his heart, out of frustration..
trying to stay calm to avoid situation getting worse i suggest waiting till we get home..
Oh blow up..
why is this such an obbsession..
when are you gunna learn that gaining a few lbs isnt a big deal..
when will you relax..
you dont understand how frustraing and awkward it is trying to find somewhere YOU can eat..
dont you just love being humiliated in public..
its not an obbsession i say..
im trying to healthy and to keep on top of my weight..
im not eating somthing i dont want to eat just to make you happy..
no joe, i may not gain all 4.5 stone back in one go but it will come back if i dont keep an eye on it..
joe why is it so hard to understand that im just trying to be good so i can let my hair down and relax over xmas..
joe, do you not think i relax ever? what the hell do you think iv been doing when i gain every now and then, do you think i gained from eating flippin salads?
I really don't know.. he applogised after and said he just got wound up and he knows he shouldnt have yelled..
but this isnt the first time he's called it an 'obbsession'
infact once, he said infront of a waiter.. why dont you just eat proper food... because i was trying to figure out what was best on the menu, ...
i let it go but looking back i'm actually quite miffed.
Sometimes hes so understanding and supportive but it worries me that he feels differently as things like this slip out during arguements?