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am I stupid?

AlexIce

Silver Member
#2
well that depends - on whether being a typical guy it was the only thing he could think of to comment on as a compliment and was trying to be nice ... or whether he's just shallow and is only showing interest now that he thinks you are fit.

:) but whichever - enjoy the feelings of being 15 again and having a crush. You know you're alive when you have such intense feelings!
 

Mini

Administrator
Staff member
#3
As you lose weight your confidence grows along with you feeling more healthy and fit in yourself it also shows on the outside, your body chemistry changes and with rapid weight loss fertility is increased...

Boiling it down to animal attraction...the male's brain is probably picking up on this...without himself being aware of what has changed.

Stop over analysing and enjoy!

Love Mini xxx
 
#4
Take it as a compliment and enjoy feeling 15 honey, he will be picking up on the new excited you and feeding on it, its a good feeling xx
 
#6
I know what you mean about having a crush & feeling like a 15yr old! Someone at work mentioned today that a man I like here has commented that I'm looking fantastic. Of course that doesn't in any way mean that he fancies me, but I feel all girly and just a little bit 15-yr-oldish!!! Am sure I'll blush if he comes into our office this afternoon and will be at a loss for words so will end up saying something completely stupid!!
You're looking fab, so take the compliment at face value and enjoy it!
xx
 
#7
God that feeling is good and scary at the same time, enjoy the complement you have worked hard so enjoy it. I was at a party this weekend and an ex was there have been told he was saying how good I looked and he regretted splitting with me, ha ha I felt on top of the world when I got told, his loss x
 

Madferret

Mad as a Hatter
#8
God that feeling is good and scary at the same time, enjoy the complement you have worked hard so enjoy it. I was at a party this weekend and an ex was there have been told he was saying how good I looked and he regretted splitting with me, ha ha I felt on top of the world when I got told, his loss x
Yah - they are the best type of compliment aren't they ? His loss as you rightly say..

Good for you girls !

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