Bad news - OHs grandad just passed away

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  1. peachy1982

    peachy1982 Silver Member

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    Just had phonecall from OH to tell me his grandad has passed away.
    They were so close and he is absolutely gutted.
    I am very upset also and i have only known him 5 years.
    Am at work and don't know what to do.
    SHould i go home - should i stay at work.
    If i go home then i am sure i will just sit and cry


    oh i hate life:cry:
     
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    Go home if your OH is going home so you can be support for him, really sorry to hear the news x
     
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    Yeah I agree with Claire. Go home and be there for each other.
    So sorry for the sad news x
     
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    So sorry to hear your news .... yes go home. It doesn't matter if you do cry - that is just the grief coming out.
     
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    Yes i would go home especially if your oh is going to be there and you can support each other. Sorry to hear the news.
     
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    I agree, go home to be with your OH if he is at home. I'm really sorry to hear your sad news :(

    Keep strong but never be worried about crying:hug99:
    Mocha
    x
     
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    Thanks girls,
    I just phoned my OH and he won't be home till about 4. So gonna hold out here for a bit then go home and be there for when he gets home.
    It doesn't matter how much you prepare yourself for something like this - you just fall apart when that phonecall comes
    peachy
    x
     
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    stacey i love minimins me :)

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    sorry to hear your news hun

    ya no where i am if ya wanna chat

    xxx
     
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    So sorry to hear. sending you lots of hugs x:(
     
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    Your in my thoughts
     
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    Oh im so sorry to hear your news and big big big hugs to you both, i think everyones right and you should go home and dont be afraid to cry it's a natural grief reaction, will be thinking of you both hugs xxx
     
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