My brother lives and works abroad. He is visiting and will be leaving on Mon. He wants the whole family to go to TGI Fridays tomorrow for a meal before he leaves. I have not told my Hubby or DD (she is only 6 anyway!) and in a way I do and don't want to go.
It has taken me literally YEARS to get where I am weightwise now, and I am at my lowest weight EVER for a long time! 8st 13 as of this morning.... which of course I am estatic about as I have STS for approx 2 weeks!!!!
I am now beginning to feel resentful of all this and am constantly making excuses for social events and eating out due to this diet. I know it is NOT as extreme as other VLCDs but I am fed up of making sensible choices while others are enjoying themselves. I now feel my decisions are effecting my families' social life by not saying anything to my hubby and daughter, as in effect THEY are missing out on a social event too. My mother is also extremely ill and would love for the family to get together as it is an extremely rare event....
I have just looked at the menu as have NEVER been there and everything appears to be smothered in Jack Daniels sauce with a side of chips or cheesy mash and I am a dessert person too which does not help on scanning down the menu...:cry:
Please can someone advise me?? xx
It has taken me literally YEARS to get where I am weightwise now, and I am at my lowest weight EVER for a long time! 8st 13 as of this morning.... which of course I am estatic about as I have STS for approx 2 weeks!!!!
I am now beginning to feel resentful of all this and am constantly making excuses for social events and eating out due to this diet. I know it is NOT as extreme as other VLCDs but I am fed up of making sensible choices while others are enjoying themselves. I now feel my decisions are effecting my families' social life by not saying anything to my hubby and daughter, as in effect THEY are missing out on a social event too. My mother is also extremely ill and would love for the family to get together as it is an extremely rare event....
I have just looked at the menu as have NEVER been there and everything appears to be smothered in Jack Daniels sauce with a side of chips or cheesy mash and I am a dessert person too which does not help on scanning down the menu...:cry:
Please can someone advise me?? xx