Jodieboo
Gold Member
Sorry guys just having a bit of a rant.
I am so WOUND UP with my partner at the moment.
I just feel as though he doesn't appreciate what I do or what i'm going through.
Tonight we have had a bit of an argument which spiralled from having no money. I had £10 to my name and he wanted some ciggies so I told him he could use the money but I was NOT going to get them for him. He then went mardy because HE had to go and get them.
On coming back he was still in a mood. I was cooking my tea at that point and I had asked if there was any change because I wanted 70p so I could nip to the chippy over the road and grab some mushy peas. He then went off the handle and slammed his money jar on the settee next to me saying its what I wanted so JUST TAKE IT.
This really wound me up because he's moaning at me for us not having any money yet he wastes all of his. Then he starts moaning because I never buy any food that HE wants, all I do is spend £50 a week on shopping for ME. Which isn't true. Just because I don't stock the freezer with burgers, chips and sausages.. all non SW food.. I don't buy his food.
Then I got so pissed off I had a go back. He never does anything round the house, sleeps til 3 in the afternoon, treats me like a door mat and expects me to just put up with it.
As I was finishing making my dinner I said to him that maybe he shouldn't have tried proving a point by buying me expensive birthday presents and saved some money. He took this as offensive, and looking back now I can see that it might have hurt him. He then slammed the door that seperates the kitchen from the living room. This really wound me up as it's a glass door and if he breaks it it would be more money as we rent this house. I came back in to the living room, angrily I do admit, and told him not to slam the door... and he turned round and raised his fist at me.
He then proceeded to then go out, slamming all doors on his way.
I've just had enough now. He doesn't appreciate what I do for him and let him get away with. I don't know any sane woman that would do all the cooking, cleaning, washing up, taking the cat to the vets, sorting the finances out and just generally keeping our lives afloat while he's either sleeping or smoking his life away!
I don't want to split up with him because I do actually love him, I just cant take his moods and "the world owes me a favour" attitude!
I am so WOUND UP with my partner at the moment.
I just feel as though he doesn't appreciate what I do or what i'm going through.
Tonight we have had a bit of an argument which spiralled from having no money. I had £10 to my name and he wanted some ciggies so I told him he could use the money but I was NOT going to get them for him. He then went mardy because HE had to go and get them.
On coming back he was still in a mood. I was cooking my tea at that point and I had asked if there was any change because I wanted 70p so I could nip to the chippy over the road and grab some mushy peas. He then went off the handle and slammed his money jar on the settee next to me saying its what I wanted so JUST TAKE IT.
This really wound me up because he's moaning at me for us not having any money yet he wastes all of his. Then he starts moaning because I never buy any food that HE wants, all I do is spend £50 a week on shopping for ME. Which isn't true. Just because I don't stock the freezer with burgers, chips and sausages.. all non SW food.. I don't buy his food.
Then I got so pissed off I had a go back. He never does anything round the house, sleeps til 3 in the afternoon, treats me like a door mat and expects me to just put up with it.
As I was finishing making my dinner I said to him that maybe he shouldn't have tried proving a point by buying me expensive birthday presents and saved some money. He took this as offensive, and looking back now I can see that it might have hurt him. He then slammed the door that seperates the kitchen from the living room. This really wound me up as it's a glass door and if he breaks it it would be more money as we rent this house. I came back in to the living room, angrily I do admit, and told him not to slam the door... and he turned round and raised his fist at me.
He then proceeded to then go out, slamming all doors on his way.
I've just had enough now. He doesn't appreciate what I do for him and let him get away with. I don't know any sane woman that would do all the cooking, cleaning, washing up, taking the cat to the vets, sorting the finances out and just generally keeping our lives afloat while he's either sleeping or smoking his life away!
I don't want to split up with him because I do actually love him, I just cant take his moods and "the world owes me a favour" attitude!