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Eating disorder!

TracyJ

Gold Member
#1
So guys my oh just said that i will end up with an eating disorder:eek: dont worry im not remotely upset by it i just find it very ignorant! Offensive i suppose, i know an eating disorder is an illness but i know i am much stronger than that and i would hope people who know me know that too! My reaction was just a smirk!:D

Strange isnt it how people cannot understand or even try to understand something that they dont agree with? More fool them i say. I am a very healthy size 14 and loving it!!:D xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
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lillie

weighs a lot less
#2
im glad you arent bothered by what he said,maybe he is feeling a bit guilty for eating all the crap and doesnt understand that you dont want to go back being the way you used to be xxxxxx
 

TracyJ

Gold Member
#3
Think youre right hun, i think he is waiting for the day i say lets have a curry...aint gonna happen im afraid lol he has a long wait! xx
 

lillie

weighs a lot less
#4
you stick to your guns,youve done the easy bit really losing the weight,now its the real test keeping it off,you know you can do it though xx
 

TracyJ

Gold Member
#5
Cheers honey at least you lot understand..oh and my mum! There is nooooo way i am going to put that bloody weight back on, not a chance! And i am so stubborn so the more he wants me to have a take away the less likely it is to happen lol xxx
 

Toni

Back again - hey ho!
#6
Blimmin eck, he doesn't sound a very supportive type Tracy!! I bet this site has been your life line to keep this up! Good on you chick xxx you'll become even stronger and more determined with comments like that xxx lol, he obviously hasn't heard of the reverse psychology tactic, and lets hope he never does!!
 

TracyJ

Gold Member
#7
Lol this site has been my life line hun, why do you think i cant leave?! I am the psychology person in our house thankfully! Maybe if i wasnt such a strong person he might feel the need to support me more? He knows i dont need it lol xx
 

Toni

Back again - hey ho!
#8
haha, that could well be the case, you and shrinking violet just dont run in the same sentance do they hun :) x
 

TracyJ

Gold Member
#9
Hahahahaha I can be shy at times honey:D just not very often! xxx
 

cee-cee

Dizzy blonde
#10
He's not getting a bit nervous cos you are looking so glam is he?:rolleyes: Some men get a bit twitchy in this situation, I'll bet you have been attracting a bit of male attention, maybe he is feeling a bit insecure?
 
#12
Yeah maybe although i think he really thought i looked fine before and didnt see the point in me dieting! He is overweight and isnt remotely bothered x
 
#13
What Lil? do you think im shy much more frequently??? xxx
 

lillie

weighs a lot less
#14
lol tracy,i think cee-cee could be right maybe he is worried ,your looking amazing afterall xx
 
#15
Thankyou hoeny! xxx
 

cee-cee

Dizzy blonde
#16
Yeah maybe although i think he really thought i looked fine before and didnt see the point in me dieting! He is overweight and isnt remotely bothered x
I'm sure you did look fine before. But then, he=overweight, you=overweight = kinda equal. Now, him=overweight, you=babe. Not so equal now! He is way out of his comfort zone! Wonder why he hasn't joined you? Has he ever been tempted?
 
#17
He honestly doesnt see it as an issue for him, saying that he wont weigh himself! He hasnt been tempted as far as i know..he just said there is no way he could not have food but dont we all think that at first?! He should though, he could do with the extra energy especially for our daughter xxx
 

cee-cee

Dizzy blonde
#18
Well, it's great that you have the sense not to let him undermine you. Shame that he won't even try sensible eating, if he can't do LT, as you say, for his health's sake.

You have done so well, and are so supportive to everyone on the forum, Tracy. As we all know, you have to want to lose weight for yourself.
 
S: 14st4lb C: 11st0lb G: 9st10lb BMI: 25.6 Loss: 3st4lb(23%)
#19
you said he is overweight but it doesnt bother him - but maybe deep down he is a bit jealous that you have lost the weight and he hasn't, when you were bigger it made him feel ok to eat the junk. When you are both bigger its ok to overeat together but now you're stronger, he knows its bad really. Whether he thought you looked ok before or not he should still support you and not try to undermine your efforts. I agree with the others I think he's feeling a bit insecure, my ex husband whinged about my weight all the time yet when I lost it all (I was once a size 10!!!) he became really jealous and started accusing me of affairs etc, men are nuts!!

I'm lucky when I started (on W8) my OH was happy the way I was- but has seen how happy I am and is really proud of me and has lost some weight himself in support and because he realised it wasn't healthy for him to be overweight either.

I know I don't know you, but I just wanted to say "Good for you" - stay strong - you are doing this for yourself not him and you are looking amazing by the way!

Carol x
 
#20
You are very right hun and i cant preach to him as i was obese for a while! Its fine if he wants to eat rubbish but i am not, not for anybody and what i eat now compared to what he has would seem like im anorexic lol xx
 




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