i usually go all quiet n shut myself away when im feeling like this. Basically my other half has a little boy with his ex and she constantly clicks her fingers or tells us what we can n cant do. Im sick of my partner letting her do this since day one. The biggest problem is his 3 year old bullies my 1 year old, since my son Haiden was about 8 months old my partners kid has done nothing but be nasty, including things like spitting, smacking, biting, head butting and trying to strangle haiden and wait for him to scream n pushes him to the floor with his hand still gripped to his throat. Aswell as hurting him to make him cry n runs off to think he hasnt done anything. Ive told my other half plenty of times this isnt normal child behaviour and if he was mine i would of gotten him seen to with behaviour lessons. Now atm my partners ex is saying it either goes her way or not at all, ive told my partner he is no longer bringing his son round to stay at the weekends as its hurting me n i cant stand seeing haiden being treated like that. He's now accusing me of making things worse n putting him in a decision of choosing between us. He keeps talking to me like its all my fault, right now i usually go to the shop n spend about £15 on crisps, chocolate and sweets but im trying to resist that temptation... im crying my eyes out n need some comfort. Anyone online to talk?