Food treats necessary on a healthy eating plan

1978Emma

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I found this on the internet and I think its so true! I personally find whilst 95% of the time I eat regular healthy meals with healthy snacks on my new eating plan, a nice planned food treat every week not only makes it easier for me to remain on track as I don't feel hard done by but it also helps me avoid my food binges, something I have battled with most of my life due to my binge eating disorder, the treats for me have to be planned as I can't have trigger foods in my house so I go out for a nice meal or have a special treat when out and about. I then look forward to my night off each week and I allow myself whatever I fancy in the restaurant, saying that I can't eat anywhere near as much as I used to. I think almost the worst thing many of us can do is make something totally off limits as it becomes all the more attractive then and we are likely to eat more than we would do if we just allowed ourselves to have the treat we desired in the first place. Em

Deciding whether to treat yourself during a diet or instead sticking only to the diet plan can be a difficult choice. However, research has found that treating yourself during a diet can not only help you achieve greater weight loss, but will also increase motivation for the diet, prevent decreases in metabolic rate, and eliminate binging.

Helps You Maintain Your Motivation for Diet

Research has found that treating yourself during a diet can help you stay motivated. Creating a small goal for yourself, and then treating yourself when you achieve this goal, is a better way of goal setting than simply coming up with one long term goal and trying to stick to it. In order to achieve optimal results when dieting, set a long term goal, and then break this goal up into shorter, more achievable goals—and reward yourself when you achieve these goals. The reward doesn’t have to be big. It can be as small as a manicure, a cup of ice cream, or simply a trip to the movie theatre. Using these tools, you’ll be sure to see results in no time.
Helps Prevent Decreases in Metabolic Rate

Another reason why treating yourself during a diet is important is because it may actually help prevent a decrease in your metabolic rate. Often, when you are on a diet you tend to create a “meal plan” that has healthy foods on it that you are determined to eat. However, many people take this meal plan a bit too far, and eat the same foods over and over. When this happens, your metabolism (which is the part of your body that digests foods and aids in their storage and excretion) starts to recognize what foods you are eating. This decreases the amount of work that your metabolism has to do, and can result in major weight gain. Therefore, getting a tasty treat in once or twice a week during your diet may actually be helpful in allowing you to reach your long term weight goals.
Helps Prevent Binges

Finally, one of the most important reasons why it is important to treat yourself during diets is that failing to do so can actually result in food binges. Research has found that when individuals crave a particular food, and prevent themselves from eating this food, they may actually experience decreases in weight loss and even more weight gain than if they had simply eaten the food they were craving to begin with. This is because when individuals crave a particular food, they often eat lots of other “healthy” foods in an attempt to satiate their craving. However, these foods often don’t do the trick, and the dieters end up eating more calories than they would have if they had simply eaten the food they had been craving to begin with. Therefore, treating yourself when you experience a craving for a particular food may actually be an effective way to help you stay on your diet.
 
1978Emma said:
I think almost the worst thing many of us can do is make something totally off limits as it becomes all the more attractive then and we are likely to eat more than we would do if we just allowed ourselves to have the treat we desired in the first place.

Not necessarily. I have not eaten my trigger foods for 86 days now. Cheese, crisps, sugar and white flour. As a result I've lost 35lbs in that time, so I certainly haven't eaten more. This is non negotiable for me. I have an addiction and the only way to recover is to remove those foods. A recovering alcoholic doesn't allow themselves a little bit of alcohol as a treat. Same thing with me and my trigger foods.
 
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Many good diets include treats such as SW. The problem is that people will read that and think it's the green light to stuff their faces with chocolate! A treat is something SMALL that you earn!
 
Patchninja said:
Many good diets include treats such as SW. The problem is that people will read that and think it's the green light to stuff their faces with chocolate! A treat is something SMALL that you earn!

I agree that this is the case for a lot of people. However I never saw it as a green light to stuff my face. I did stuff my face but hated ever minute of it and hated myself for doing it. I knew it was wrong but when it is an addiction / compulsion then logic doesn't come into it unfortunately :(
 
I guess everyone will have a different view point on whether food treats should be part of a healthy eating plan or not and a persons views will differ based on their own life experiences and their own personal relationship with food.

I have been a binge eater since a child and my urges for starvation and binges got even more serious as I got older due to abuse I suffered in a very bad relationship and I became so very ill because of this and needed professional help for various things inc my eating disorder so my personal opinion on the best way forward and the inclusion of treat foods on a healthy eating plan come from working with some amazing specialists in the eating disorder field, not just something I read on the net or what have you, its medically based.

As someone with an eating disorder I have always been very obsessive, very all or nothing etc so either nothing being the starvation tendencies and the all being the massive binges. I now know that the only way I can fully recover from this eating disorder is to do the moderation route, basically the middle path thing! something which until recently I had never done as I had always lived in extremes. I have to go against my all or nothing urges as if I don't allow myself any treats that is just doing the all or nothing thing once again which means I will never fully recover from my binge eating disorder something which I really want to do.

Like I said I can only talk from the perspective of someone who is in intensive dialectical behaviour therapy treatment for an eating disorder and I know that all the eating disorder specialists I have come across would never advise the no treats thing as its unhealthy for the mind and sadly just feeds into a persons already obsessive mind frame, the only way they say I will recover is to learn how to manage my starvation and binge urges. I can do the all or nothing thing easily as its something I am used to, starve all day, binge in the evening or even eat so little for months and no treats at all as thats the way I have always worked and then you guess it I go on a mega binge! Its about recognising the all or nothing urges, facing them and going against them, its harder to do that than give into them but its amazing how much better a life in moderation can be. I know for me this has worked as I have been undergoing DBT therapy for a while now and its so intensive and hard going but its working wonders. I of course have to recognise my trigger foods and I can't have those in the house due to my binge urges being so strong but I do have a planned treat / or treats each week involving my trigger foods when out like a meal out or an ice cream whilst out and thats helping me so much as its helping me to improve my relationship with food, no food is bad even though I have often felt it is, nothing should be off limits, its all about moderation. If you turn food into being bad or naughty or totally off limits you basically will never have a healthy relationship with food, something which I know I am striving for after years of feeling its my best friend and worst enemy rolled into one. I'm down 1 st 8 lbs in 5 weeks just through healthy eating and having weekly planned treats.

There is a big difference between allowing yourself a planned food treat and just sitting their eating loads of nice treat type food, it should be a treat not a binge, I haven't had a full on binge in months thanks to the treatment, its all about moderation. Also in therapy I have had to deal with all those difficult emotions that over the years I have pushed down with food, facing those difficult emotions has been so painful but has taken the power out of the relationship I had with food.

Em
 
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Absolutely, we all deal with it differently. For me I know that if I'm not totally abstinent then I run the risk of turning a planned treat into a binge. My recovery programme encourages total abstinence and so that is what I do. I will always be a compulsive overeater. I hope at some stage to be able to say that I'm a recovered compulsive overeater, but that's a long way in the future and I'm only 3 months into my recovery programme.
 
I bought 6 freddo bars today with the intention of having 1 a day as a 5 syn treat ive had a bad day so I've had 2 which im annoyed about but as long as I dont actually eat all of them today then i still consider it a win because normally i will hoover choccy up on sight its a bit worrying im slipping on day 3 but at the same time i know ive ate considerably less crappy food than i normally would and nowhere near the same calorie/fat intake and it is a massive change for me and I don't always adjust to change easily so I think expecting too much of myself in week 1 would just set myself up for failure. ive also made an appt with my gp to see if theres any weight loss support they cn offer so I cn deal with the mind as well as the body.

Personally if I didnt have treats I would fail the plan within a month guaranteed
 
Hi Mantha16, its so difficult losing weight I know and I'm with you I know from past experience that when I try and do the no treats thing I always end up failing on whatever plan I am on. This time around I don't bring treats into the house as I can't trust myself yet, trust me your 6 freddo frog bars would have gone in record time in my place as I would have scoffed the lot ha ha so you are doing well just sticking to the two. I think its about finding what works for you, for me I go on a regular weekly or once a fortnight meal out, where I give myself permission to basically have what I want on the menu and no diet food! and that works for me and means I can still have a good social life and meet up with my friends for meals out and the cinema or something and I don't become this miserable diet obsessed cow which I have become so often in the past! ha ha I just think it should be about moderation, its not about being "perfect", we are human and we rarely are "perfect" so if we have a slip up its not the end of the world, its how we cope with that said slip up. I personally think its not just what weight you are losing but what weight you are stopping yourself gaining, as basically many of us if we hadn't started our new eating plans may well have carried on gaining to boot!

I have had a step down process with my eating plan, I started eating 2000 kcals a day in the first week and a bit then went down to 1800 , then down to 1700 and am now aiming for 1500-1700, I had to do a bit at a time and thats worked for me, I had many more small treats in the first couple of weeks to make it through than I need now I have completed my sixth week, its about making small changes, baby steps and you will get there, if we aim for all or nothing we tend to undermine our own progress. Em xx
 
With me it's different. Every diet I ever did I allowed myself 'treats' and it was a disaster. This is the only time it has successfully worked and I allow myself no treats. But I don't feel deprived at all.
 
With me it's different. Every diet I ever did I allowed myself 'treats' and it was a disaster. This is the only time it has successfully worked and I allow myself no treats. But I don't feel deprived at all.
well it would be boring if we were all the same but its good you've found what works for you
 
My experience (I've suffered exercise addiction, bullimia, binge eating) is that initially I need the abstinence. This increases my self esteem. This then means I can 'start again' from a place where I have some feeling of power & control so can start eating trigger foods. However, the triggers for me are more emotional so I find it easier to work on those then I naturally don't want to binge on rubbish quality junk food. I find I only want these foods as they immediately alter my state of mind (quick sugar rush making me sleepy & 'calm') when I need that 'hit'. If I don't feel the need then I'd probably never consider that food. For me there are a lot of emotional triggers, and most of them are outside my control. Gillian Riley talks about self esteem being critical as does Gillian Roth - both write great books.
 
If its in the house i will eat it, like today i had some french fries crisps in the house i said i would have one packet, i ate them both. For me i need to not have it round me or ill just eat it, i love junk food and would eat it all day if i could. having to diet is like teaching and training yourself about food it just takes time, lots and lots of time.
 
A success. BUT, why did you buy 6? Just get one thing at a time. Be kinder to yourself. Don't set yourself up for a fall.:)

I bought 6 freddo bars today with the intention of having 1 a day as a 5 syn treat ive had a bad day so I've had 2 which im annoyed about but as long as I dont actually eat all of them today then i still consider it a win because normally i will hoover choccy up on sight its a bit worrying im slipping on day 3 but at the same time i know ive ate considerably less crappy food than i normally would and nowhere near the same calorie/fat intake and it is a massive change for me and I don't always adjust to change easily so I think expecting too much of myself in week 1 would just set myself up for failure. ive also made an appt with my gp to see if theres any weight loss support they cn offer so I cn deal with the mind as well as the body.

Personally if I didnt have treats I would fail the plan within a month guaranteed
 
yeah I can never buy multiples, in fact I personally have become very aware of my trigger foods, the foods which would trigger me to carry on eating so I have none of them in the house, instead I have searched a bit trial and error like to find alternatives to my trigger foods that don't trigger me to binge, some have been great and others I have bought in thinking they would be safe and even though I hadn't realised when I bought them they ended up being a trigger food so had to stop getting them. For me I will not bring anything in the house that causes me to binge so my house is full of food, fridge is full etc but nothing is stuff I will binge on, therefore I can keep within my calorie limit easily each day. I then have special planned treat days when out where I can consume my trigger foods like on a meal out with friends as that way I have a nice reward but don't have to bring the stuff into my own home. Em
 
I agree. I used to have a treat everyday then every second ect
 
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