Soooo...here I am at nearly 30 and 244.7lbs. I NEED to lose weight. My OH and I would like to have kids and have been referred for IVF, which we can't get, because my BMI is to high. As well we recently have some problems, because I am finding myself really unattractive and I always assume my OH must feel the same. He doesn't, or at least he doesn't say. So now I decided that this has to change. I want to be able to look in the mirror again and like myself. That's the goal. Hopefully I'll get there.