I suppose to let you know what sort of hair I have to help your with whatever advice you are getting, I am half Chinese, so have very strong hair that is naturally wavy/curly. My scalp is oily, but my hair my dry. I colour as I have greys. It's also quite long now, so requires more treatment to remain soft. But yeah... when it goes frizzy, I go Diana Ross. I don't brush my hair, in fact it the last time it saw a brush was when I had it cut a year ago.