Have you tried Lighter Life. There is someone on here with a BMI of about 66 and she has lost most of her weight. It might be worth a try and certainly can't be as risky as surgery.
whatever you chose make sure it's right for YOU. all the best sue.
Hi and welcome - obviously only you can decide what is right for you.
I received my surgery date with Shaw on Friday & having it done 30th Dec. Like you very scared but know that it I need it to have any quality of life.
Good luck with whatever you decide x