I ended a very destructive relationship last night

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  1. Beccubug

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    and even though I know it will be better in the long run I still feel like ****. I know it is not diet related but you guys are always so good thought I would air it on here.
     
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    :grouphugg:Well done you for being brave enough to make that massive step. You know we will all be here for you when you need us. I'm sure you'll be feeling rubbish for a while but every day you will get that little bit stronger and see all the reasons why you know you had to do it.
    Sending you a big hug.
     
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    Wishing you all the best in the future. Be strong
     
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    big hugs from me. well done in putting you first babes.

    abz xx
     
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    Thank you both.
     
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    (((hugs)))

    becky xxx
     
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    Sorry to hear this Beccubug!! I am going through a break up myself so can totally relate.
    It will hurt, but you'll be ok.

    :gen126: Big hug to you sweetie.....
     
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    Thanks, Penny, It really is crap. Really shouldn't have come to work today, people keep looking at me very wierdly every time I break down.
     
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    Perhaps you should tell your manager and then take the rest of the day off?
    I've been crying all weekend, but sort of hiding it because I have to be strong for my daughters sake. My manager lets me vent in our post room,lol, she is very understanding.

    Dont worry honey, you're obviously better off and you'll see that soon enough....
     
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    I probably should go home but I am trying to keep my mind off it as much as possible.
     
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    hay babe,
    my thoughts r with u, as u know i'm in the same situation as u. each day gets a tiny bit easier, but the reality has yet to sink in.
    xx
     
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    I guess it is bound to be harder today than it ever will be. I don't think it will sink in for some time, I hope it continues to get better for you too.
     
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    Big hugs to you Beccubug. It does get easier I promise.

    I walked out on a very destructive relationship last October, with my 12 week old daughter in tow. Thought it would be the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but the relief of getting out and getting away was far greater than the sadness of leaving him. 9 months on and I have built a whole new life for myself - the final stages of which involve shifting the extra 11 stone I have been carrying around for the last god know how many years!!!!!
     
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    A BIG hug from Norway as well! I think you are really brave! I promise that it will be better after some time, just take it a day at the time! Take care!
     
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    Hi, I'm also on my own now and it gets easier. I still cry but can control it better now. Try and look forward - not back. I know from previous experience, these things happen for the best and in time you'll say 'I should've done that ages before, was the best thing I ever did' Chin up!
     
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    awe guys, i know how you all feel, i have been there always thought i would never be ok, but i was.. it does get better, just be strong!

    senidng you all lots of hugs xx
     
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    Thank you so much all of you. I am feeling a bit better today and have managed to get through the last two hours without crying so I am getting better
     
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    Glad to hear it. You can do it, read some nice books and go into fantisy land for a while - it helps.
     
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    Ive got 5st of negative relationship weight to get rid of so every lb I lose its part of the negativity going.
    Good luck hope you feel better each day hunni.xxxxxxxxx
     
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    Thanks everyone, and on the plus side I was 10st 8lbs on the scales this morning. Wait till he sees me with a size eight body in a few months, he will then see what he has lost.
     
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