I need a hug !!

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  1. Debz1809

    Debz1809 I ♥ SW!

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    Hi everyone

    How are we all tonight? I am back at work, nightshift number 4, only 3 more to go :) My best pal came in tonight to tell me that she is pregnant :D She is only 5 weeks at the mo but I am so so happy for her! I am struggling to have kids naturally and will prob have to be IVF. I am going to be an aunty in 7 weeks to my brothers bubba and now my besto is pg! I feel like someone has kicked me in the teeth and babies are happening all over the place! I am quite upset about it and was crying to hubby tonight. I am struggling with my weight and been told that I will prob need IVF. I am on a 5 month w8n list to get my 1st consultation but need to get my BMI down to 35 or below! I feel like this is never going to happen and just generally so down in the dumps just now :cry: I need another hug and hubby is at home :cry:
    I sound like such a ***** and i dont mean it, i am so over the moon for them both but I want a baby more than anything else in this world!! My best pal was at sworld with me and we were dieting together. I am scared that now she wont be going to go back to sworld and I will loose my motivation every week as she isnt there! xx
     
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    First of all BIG HUG!

    Second of all - look how far you have come already - you can stick with this and get that BMI down with or without your friend. And think of the motivation you have and what you have to look forward to when you get there.

    Finally - nobody could judge you for being a little down. It's really hard to see people close to you having babies when you're having trouble conceiving so take the time you need to be upset for you. It doesn't mean that you're not happy for your friend.

    Stick with it. You can do this and before long it will be you calling her with exciting news xx
     
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    Hey Debs, sorry you're finding things difficult atm xx if your best friend needs to lose weight there shud be no reason for her not to carry on with sw...at the end of the day its simply a healthy eating plan. Of course she should check it out wiv her gp first. But if she does decide to stop don't worry...we will be here to help motivate u, gee u up when you're flagging, praise u when u hav done well, and be a shoulder to cry on if u need it xx. Wishing u every success with your goals hunni xx

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  5. Debz1809

    Debz1809 I ♥ SW!

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    Thanks. I feel selfish for being upset but I know that the emotions are running over the place. I am going to be an aunty in 7 weeks aswell (my brothers gf who is 16) I was the same when I found out that she was pregnant. I am excited now about my wee nephew being born. Wont be long. The initial finding out just kills me xx
     
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    Debz massive hugs being sent your way, I know what its like to want a baby so bad that no matter where you look something baby related hits you, but you are doing fantastic stick with it xx
     
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  7. Debz1809

    Debz1809 I ♥ SW!

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    She is going to text our consultant tomorrow and find out if she should still go to atend the classes etc. I am hoping that she does continue with it but I know that if she doesnt then I can get motivation from these boards. Thanks for your support xxx
     
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    It always seems that there is a baby everywhere I turn and it really does get me down. I get so upset about the full pregnancy issue. I am hoping that I can fall naturally so that there is no need to go through IVF!!!
     
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    ((hugs)) to you xxxx :) xxxx
     
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    Debz1809 I ♥ SW!

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    Thanks. Making myself even more depressed, just at and watched the film 'Knocked Up' :rolleyes:
     
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    Sorry Debz I misread your post hope everything works out for you xx
     
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