meoww
Silver Member
Does anyone else have to constantly explain themselves to their mothers like I do?
I partly live at home and partly at my OH's purely because Im too skint to afford my own place (saving to buy a house)
and I wasnt sure whether my mum payed much attention to what I was eating but apparently she does! I wouldnt be surprised if she had my weeks worth of food written down! Its really annoyed me, she notes every slip up that I make and I just feel like Im being spied on and judged!
some mothers might worry about us eating low calories but mines the total opposite, she fasts twice a week and Im pretty sure shes on the way to developing anorexia.
so today I was picking at her as shed cooked a HUGE tray of potatoes for 4 people and I was questioning why there was so much, and she starts mentioning things Ive eaten recently that I shouldnt have saying; why is she wrong to make loads when I dont stick to my diet anyway..
shes convinced I blame her for my food issues, well to be honest yes, they are partly her fault, I developed food issues as a child when I knew no better, when I was encouraged to go on a diet aged 10 and Ive been conscious of being fat for as long as I hold memories!
I am prepared to forget about all blame as it wont help me heal but how do I respond to this? I just feel like avoiding my parents house as much as possible as I cant stand the though of her knowing what I eat whether its amazingly good or shockingly bad I just want her to know nothing.
Any thoughts at all would be great, I am mostly ranting but I have no clue what to do, except get out of this house!
I partly live at home and partly at my OH's purely because Im too skint to afford my own place (saving to buy a house)
and I wasnt sure whether my mum payed much attention to what I was eating but apparently she does! I wouldnt be surprised if she had my weeks worth of food written down! Its really annoyed me, she notes every slip up that I make and I just feel like Im being spied on and judged!
some mothers might worry about us eating low calories but mines the total opposite, she fasts twice a week and Im pretty sure shes on the way to developing anorexia.
so today I was picking at her as shed cooked a HUGE tray of potatoes for 4 people and I was questioning why there was so much, and she starts mentioning things Ive eaten recently that I shouldnt have saying; why is she wrong to make loads when I dont stick to my diet anyway..
shes convinced I blame her for my food issues, well to be honest yes, they are partly her fault, I developed food issues as a child when I knew no better, when I was encouraged to go on a diet aged 10 and Ive been conscious of being fat for as long as I hold memories!
I am prepared to forget about all blame as it wont help me heal but how do I respond to this? I just feel like avoiding my parents house as much as possible as I cant stand the though of her knowing what I eat whether its amazingly good or shockingly bad I just want her to know nothing.
Any thoughts at all would be great, I am mostly ranting but I have no clue what to do, except get out of this house!