okay so i purchased exante ages ago a bumper pack and I still have 62 shakes left. I am always thinking about losing weight but never committing and it is destroying my family life. I feel crap, I hate the way I look, I dont feel romantic in the bedroom, dont want to go out as a family because nothing to wear and self concious blah blah blah. so last night my husband let me know that it is not just me who is unhappy. He is tired of excuses and me being miserable and not wanting to go out as a family and that things need to change. He has always been supportive and loving no matter what weight I am but I think he has had enough of miserable me and quite rightly has pointed out that if weight is what is making me miserable then lose it. So today is the day I am going to commit to 3 weeks total solutions as I have 3 weeks of stuff so here goes.