Sounds like your boyfriend isn't in the right place mentally to be dieting and this could be really detrimental to your weight loss. I know in the past when my OH was half heartedly on a diet and constantly moaning and saying how he missed certain junk food it would ultimately end up in us both giving up and going back to our old ways. This time he is super focused and it is keeping me strong and on track and I know he's going to reach his goal. Does your boyfriend realise that his moaning isn't helping you? Mine kept talking about all his yummy food he was going to cook in the end I explain to him that he was being really cruel considering I wasn't eating, he hadn't even considered how it was making me feel lol