Scared to lose weight.

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  1. Nicki1313

    Nicki1313 New Member

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    Hi CD dieters

    This is my first posting and one that may surprise some people out there....

    I have tried many diets in the past, but all with no real long term success.

    After 1 week on the CD I have discovered something very worrying about myself - I am actually scared to lose weight, (I have already tried to sabotege my most recent efforts). :break_diet:

    I do want to lose weight (I buy clothes in size 14 in spite of currently being size 18/20) but something keeps stopping me.

    Has anyone out there had a similar experience? How have you dealt with it?

    Nicki
     
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  3. Snowbaby

    Snowbaby Wants to shed pounds more

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    I understand that totally. I tend to use mine as a block to the outside world, I think. Some tend to feel like its a buffer. I tend to remain in the same size clothes for a while, but I jack my waist in with a belt or take the waist in a bit. I'll do this until I am ready mentally to shop for smaller things. I want to stablise everything before I go on a clothing splurge :)
     
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    icemoose The Diet Guy

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    Hiya Nicki

    OK in this case I would be looking for

    1. What is the benefit of staying big?
    2. What is the benefit of NOT being slim?

    Have a read of this Beneficial Intent

    There is a benefit in everything you do and hence if you can understand why you are scared then you can do something about it.

    Mike

    When you understand the beneficial intent
     
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    Nicki1313 New Member

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    Thanks for replying Snowbaby.

    I have no problem buying smaller clothes - just losing the weight to fit into them :-(

    Need to find a way to get over my fear...
     
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