so so angry right now, why do they do it????

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  1. natalieann

    natalieann Silver Member

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    right well here i go lol rant time

    ive been today and got another weeks shakes, after wanting to quit and having decided to carry on im still here and have still done amazing up to know and will carry on doing so

    anyway today i went to the shop to be asked by a lady how id lost my weight, so i told her, instead of well done etc etc i got this instead

    oh right well YOU WILL gain it all back and more, so to which i explained no i wont, i will do a proper refeed then eat well afterwards, and if i gain a few lbs i eat even better to relose and keep an eye on the weight all the time

    but no im wrong, and i get, NO YOU WILL GAIN IT BACK, coz i did a diet like it and regained, i did it 5 times, lost 3 stone then gained it back 5 times,

    to which i reply its not the diet u lose it on, its maintaining it after, if you go back to old habits you will regain, if you dont then you wont, ints about common sense

    but no i still get well ok then if you say so, with one of those long horrid looks thats says I KNOWWWWWWWWWWW u dont:sigh:

    so i just walked away and said no i wont believe me

    im so angry and upset, i was on a real high after stickin to it all day yesterday and today and she put me on a real downer, why do they do this

    i can see from this forum, that people do regain, but they all admit its thier own fault and dont blame it on lipotrim.........they know its them that did it

    after all the positive comments ive had this one just really takes the mick:rolleyes:

    and check this.... she says the reason EVERYONE regains is coz they havent had food for so long that after they love the taste so much they cant stop....phah??

    if shed saud u may regain id have been fine, it was the look of sympathy she gave me that really got me angry
     
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    You would think if people dont have anything nice to say they shouldnt say anything atall eh!! Dont let someone elses ignorance get you down!! You have done so well... when you had your two days off did you eat normally and come out of ketosis, just wondering as I have had a big blip today after 7 weeks, back on track now, on the water etc.. hoping havent jepordised everything, was hoping to get into the elevens this week, ah well.....
    Dont let that lady get you down xx
     
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    She's a bitter person getting no sexy time. It's massively obvious. You get idiots like this in all walks of life and are experts in everything. I'd an Uncle telling me how easy it was for me to get a big mortgage for a house when I was a 1st time buyer even though he was living in a house that was his Wife's parents and was left t her and he'd never bought a house.

    You just use these peoples negativity and turn it into a personal fat-burning fuel. Everyone is an expert.

    This diet uses the exact same process as any other diets, just at a more extreme rate. It reduces calorie intake and allows the body to burn off it's own fat stores just like every other diet/training regime or healthy eating/excercise regime.

    You'll also find that the díckheads that tell you you'll put it back on, or you've lost too much or you now look sick will also be the ones that tell you how you need to loss weight. I had a couple of people that were sceptical about this whole process at the start, most are now considering starting and I'm the talk of my wider family circle. I hope it spurs them on to following the same path so that is why I tell anyone that asks that I'm on/was on Lipotrim. It's the best decision I've ever made.
     
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    Don't let it get to you hun.. You have done really really well and will continue to do so ♥ ♥

    You should have said "I may gain a little weight but you have shown me that i can never be as bitter and twisted as some!!"

    Fair play to you .. i think i would have clumped her and told her she was lucky i didn't sit on her 6 months ago or she wouldnt be getting up!! lol

    I am getting sooooooooo bitter in my old age lol x x
     
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    What an obnoxious so and so!

    You only have to look at the maintainence section on here to see a few of us that are maintaining. It can and is done :) Jan has been maintaining for over a year now. She's just brill.

    There are 2 other people in my work place too that have lost shed loads and have managed to keep it off.

    Ignore people like that - she's obviously bitter and very jealous!
     
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    What a horrible thing to say to someone dieting. Gold standard cow! Nat ignor! I'm waiting on the watch you don't lose too much comments which I hate when dieting. x
     
  8. natalieann

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    thanks hun and yeah i ate normally, but very small portions and came out of ketosis, i had a blip other day and trying t get back now

    good for you hun, bugger them all hey, and yes she probably bitter coz she cant control her loss
    yeah i should have sed something but i always think of comebacks after lol

    thanks hun, i know it should not have gotten tome like that, but we face so much on this diet you dont need that too:)

    and i can see on here that people do maintain, its just see thought she knew just coz she had gained it back, i think she blames the diets and not herself

    anyway rant over, stil pissed off but glad i got you lot to listen to me lmao, all in same boat.....ive had so many possitive comments but then there are the odd few who say things like you will gain it back, its not healthy, and ive even had other week i look ill, i mean as if im still a size 14, not a 6 geeze lol
     
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    yeah i know but ya know what it was the most, the look of pure sypmathy for my aparrent stupidness that only she sawi cant wait to shove it in her face after when im maintaining, and looking great

    and yeah i get the dont lose to much thing, its not like im already a size 10 and going lower, i only wanna be a 12, thats average these days
     
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    Yeah well its her who needs the sympathy, you can change your ways and keep the weight off, she will always be an insensitive troublemaker. x
     
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    What is she a friggin Dietician come Medic
    Screw her as you will maintain your weight just as I will and folks like her will be made to 'Choke on Their Words - You'll put it all back on...'

    All I can say is for all us Lipotrimians we shall all stand strong and maintain our weightloss an' watch those who said those words Spew to which we shall turn round and tell them 'what did you say about Moi putting on weight? oops and oh is that a jelly belly i see before me on you':crazy:





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  12. natalieann

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    yeah exACTLY thanks hun, maybe she didnt even mean it bad, but she was having none of it she knows best
     
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    haha laughed so loud there i scared the kids lol, love it cheered me up no end :D
     
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    You should have said "I may be fat now but you'll ALWAYS be ugly" .......who cares if you're rude.....silly *****
     
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    Natalie ...
    I have come across loads of people like that woman that seem to take great pleasure in telling you either ..
    1) How dangerous diets like Lipotrim are or
    2) How they failed on such diets.

    Usually they are very ill informed or plain bitter.
    Best plan is to ignore them totally, hard though it may be at the time.

    VLCD's when followed correctly are very safe and very effective FACT.

    Correct re-feeding and then a sensible diet going forward is the way of keeping the weight off FACT - Maintenance can be done.


    Dont give this woman or anyone else like her you are likely to meet any more thought - She failed miserably FIVE times and that says it all!

    You are doing fantastically hun x
     
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    An' hey if you come across any more arse holes like her shift yourself and your clan over to Edgware :D
     
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    hey if anyone gives you that line again you just go tell 'em "how comes GP's and hospital dieticians could only put a person onto Lipotrim up until a good few yrs ago. Go do your research before you start telling me what its all about".
     
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    People love to tell you "I told you so"
    They just make me more determined - Thats why I lost 6 stone!!
     
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    Well done for the rant! Everyone needs to let off a bit of steam!
     
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    OMG how rude.....

    IT jealousy because she knows she can't do it. This time next year you will still be nice and slim and have maintained. Hmmmm what will she say when she sees you then!

    Stupid cow!
     
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    haha nice one lol
    thanks hun, that made me feel better, this diet is good, u just have to be good yourself afterwards:D

    mmite just do that hun haha

    yeah exactly how true, when i first started this i had my aunt going on for weeks saying how bad it was etc and that i would gain more back, really upset me, but shes very large herself and wanting a gastric band:rolleyes:

    funnily enough she has not eve said one single thing or praise to me on my losses as of yet:mad:

    yeah good one well done babe

    yeah i knwo what yur saying hun, no matter what diet its up to us to keep it off, doesnt matter how u lose it
    haha probably both love, i dont care now, im the one who went into a shop today to try on boots and actually for the first in years was able to zip up and knee lenthge pair in normal size and they fit perfectly, it felt amazing shame i coulnt afford them lol, but just wanted to see if i could, in the past ive had to buy online or in evens and go for wider fitting boots, woowoop im now normal yayyyyyyyyyy and can buy whatever boots i like and know they zip up
     
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