I think it's so different now from when I was growing up.
My childhood home was a 2 minute walk from my school so I had a key when I was 8 and was ok to walk to and from with my friends.
I was also allowed to play out by myself from 8 because we have lots of fields nearby the only rule was no crossing the road.
I had a very structured life because I went to school then on Monday's, Wednesday's and Saturday's I would be in dance classes for hours. Tuesday's I went to swimming lessons, Thursday's I had piano lessons and Fridays I went to brownies then guides. Sunday morning was Sunday school until i was 11 then Sunday dinner then I went out to play. That was my life from 3 years old to 17 years old and I loved it! I was always busy lol I didn't have time to cause trouble like kids seem to these days.
I think because we see so much media attention to tragedies where young children have been snatched it scares parents into not letting children out alone.
I really don't know how I will feel when my baby is older, you see so many kids out drinking and being a nuisance I don't want that to be my baby I want more for him or her! My husband disagrees with how many after school activities I had but I'm a grade 8 on the piano, have my Baden Powell award, i represented wales in iceland for girl guides, have taken the highest exams in dance for tap, modern, ballet, jazz, national and disco danced in the albert hall, london palladium and disney land, and I was in the Wales under 16 swim team. I also did carnival queen competitions as the local hospital queen and helped raise £50,000 for vital equipment.
I'm proud I've done so much and had so many experiences, I think he thinks my mum is pushy but I enjoyed doing all that stuff! I want our child boy or girl to have all the opportunities I had and more but I think Rob thinks I'm going to be a pushy helicopter parent!
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P.s sorry for the essay! With motherhood looming all this has been surfacing its nice to have an outlet!