V ....I met my OH when I lost a shed load of weight on CWP the first time, a whirlwind romance later and we got married and had DD no 2. I was in my "prime" time I think. 30 and full of beans.
Now 7 years later and well, he is a total foodie feader. He's lucky as he's an ex kick boxer with a metabolism like a whippet. I on the other hand only have to look at a donut to gain 5lbs. It's a hormone thing.
The sad part is, he is so athletic and really isn't complimentary about me being over weight. Which incidentally, I wouldn't be either if he suddenly gained 50lbs of blubber like I did. So I can't be too mad at him...
I got back to a weight where I felt sexy again, but so much happened including close relatives passing, me giving up a well paid career, trouble in our marriage and a miscarriage and well my coping mechanism was just to submerse myself into food...well chocolate actually!
That's what I'm trying to learn about now. Decompress and deal with difficult feelings without eating a 500g bar of dairy milk.