Its amazing how we all feel the same. When I was at uni, in my 2nd year, I house shared with 3 blokes and 2 other girls. Both girls were thin, and not just a little thin, but really skinny thin. Next to them I felt like a hippo. It really didn't do my self esteem any good at all. I was always classed as the fat one! Anyway, one evening, I will never forget this....one of my girl house-mates wanted to go to the Student union - I ended up going with her and no-one else could be bothered. Anyway to cut a really long story short, we walked into the union and from the second we walked in, it was ME who got all the attention from all the blokes, and my house-mate sat there 'billy no mates'! It was the first time this had ever happened. I felt on top of the world. When we left to go home my house-mate said that was the worst night - for me it was the best and all I could say was welcome to my world and for the first time she realised what it was like to have the shoe on the other foot! That evening was over 10yrs ago now and I still remember it as clearly as if it happened yesterday!
Basically I think I had just had a good day, was on a natural high and was beaming with confidence and it all showed - my weight had nothing to do with any of it...
The more confident we feel, the better we will be at socialising and attracting our mate....
I'm still fat...loosing now with Go Lower and feeling better about myself. I have never to this day felt as confident as I did that night, but when I'm down I go back there and know things will get better and improve! My OH loves me for me...fat, thin or otherwise.
Good luck..
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