Poppet12
Gold Member
No he doesn't have a role to play in the arrangements. We chatted about it on two occasions that I can recall and I think she could have said something, but I think she is already sensitive to the idea that he might be left out.. nothing can be done now but I feel guilty and upset that I've upset her :-/Does the guy have a role to play in the wedding arrangements, i.e. is he an usher or something, if not just be honest and say as he doesn't really socialise with the guys he was overlooked & it wasn't intentional. I'm assuming you chatted to her about the stag do beforehand, perhaps she could have mentioned something before the event. Stop stressing its done now.
I've sent a message to say how sorry I am and that I've a lot on my plate but I think it might be seen as a cop out..This sounds the best route, remind her/him you are under a lot of pressure with the arrangements, and things are bound to escape you, it wasn't done on purpose... xx
Thanks both for your advice. Hopefully I will be forgiven. It's my hen party this weekend and I don't want it to be awkward.. x