hmm...
Im not really interested in women because i believe i have found the right person and il see how that goes, so the rest dont apply to me.
il be honest, if i see a 'fit' girl and a slightly larger girl walking together, i would look at the fit girl first. im just being honest. however, once i start talking to them, thats if i talk to them, i might find the slightly larger one is better to talk to.
personally being fat hasnt affected me too much. probably because i havent reached that stage where i look so fat, alot of people dont call me fat i must say, just people close to me lol. but my problem is im still gaining weight.
but speaking from personal experience, lets say about 3-4 years ago. when i had a tight shirt on, the confidence it would give me would be immense, like huge. i used to leave a few buttons opened (on purpos) on my shirt, and i did have some decent results at times...details will not be revealed on here though lol...
but i cant comment on the bedroom department, because im waiting til after i get married, and shes also waiting til after marriage lol. but i would have thought that if 2 people like each other, they wont care 'that' much about the others body. like the person i like, shes pretty, but some people wouldnt say shes sooo amazing and stunning, but to me she is so pretty and beautiful, i like everything about her. but she is quite skinny, so when she critisizes my weight, i cant say anything back. and she always calls her self fat, and does exercise, she has like no fat on her. why do girls do that? i have no idea...she calls her self fat, however if i ever called her fat, i know she would kill me.
but back to the topic. physical attraction will always exist and have some effect. its similar to saying people eat with their eyes...they SEE something which looks nice to eat, and they eat it.
so i think weight does have some impact on bedroom. because if you feel good about your self, it will give you that confidence to do your thing. ive got a bit of a belly now, and woah it does not look good. i know i wouldnt feel comfortable with a girl, but if its the right girl then i wouldnt feel that bad. but id rather not have the belly and get my 6 pac back, then id feel much better.