Cranberrie
Full Member
The next few months are going to be so hectic with weddings etc and people like my in-laws have an expectation of me to be very involved in things they do.
As a result I'm on a hen night tonight and I have to stay until the end due to sharing apartments etc. We went out for a Chinese earlier and I ordered a dish I thought would keep me on plan (810) but unfortunately the dish was quite oily and I think the tofu had been deep-fried. I'm not a big drinker and usually am fine going without but tonight has been so hard watching everyone have lovely cocktails.
Also I've hardly had any time to drink water due to having to run around after my in-laws and can't help but feel a little resentful that my otherwise smooth(ish) sailing diet is being jeapordised and made harder by things I don't particularly want to do. They have been supportive but don't get that I need lots of time to get my water intake and I don't have the energy for hen dos etc. Not quite sure how to approach this. Does anyone else have these issues and think we need to start being more selfish so we stay on plan? Apologies for the rant!
As a result I'm on a hen night tonight and I have to stay until the end due to sharing apartments etc. We went out for a Chinese earlier and I ordered a dish I thought would keep me on plan (810) but unfortunately the dish was quite oily and I think the tofu had been deep-fried. I'm not a big drinker and usually am fine going without but tonight has been so hard watching everyone have lovely cocktails.
Also I've hardly had any time to drink water due to having to run around after my in-laws and can't help but feel a little resentful that my otherwise smooth(ish) sailing diet is being jeapordised and made harder by things I don't particularly want to do. They have been supportive but don't get that I need lots of time to get my water intake and I don't have the energy for hen dos etc. Not quite sure how to approach this. Does anyone else have these issues and think we need to start being more selfish so we stay on plan? Apologies for the rant!