god hes so selfish [rant again]

[xKimmiex]

hes been asleep since 4, just got up! i thought oh il suprise him and make him tea, and hes moaned because i woked him up! selfish sod! im bloody tired, just want to go bed, but i cant because he cant look after taylor and i end up doing it!:cry:

 

[poohbearmufc]

That's Men 4 u...x

 

[Delli]

why cant he look after taylor? (guessing taylor is the wee one in the pic)

 

[Sez]

men..............................

 

[xKimmiex]

because he doesnt really no how to. he doesnt change pooey nappis so id have to

 

[Mrs B]

Sorry Kimmie but I wouldn't be putting up with that. You don't need two babies to look after. And he's missing out too.

 

[spooky]

It takes 2 to make a baby, Kimmie and he has to realise that.
My Dh works full time and when the children were born he took his turn, bathing, nappies, taking baby out for fresh air, all that. He has to face his responsibilities. If he is unwilling to manage with her at this young age how will he get on when shes walking? talking? at school?

I am sorry you are having it tough.

 

[1967rose]

I take it this is your first! If you accept this now it'll only get worse.....we all have to learn how to 'look after the baby'. My advise would be to leave the house so you can't interfere with how he's choosing to do it, even if it's only to spend an hour worrying in a cafe! Kinder to all 3 of you in the long run.

very best wishes