Mother Alex
Member
Hi everyone. I have got to the point of desperation because I am now at my heaviest ever, even more than when I was pregnant (many years ago!). I have tried every diet, group and club imaginable, but they haven't worked for me, because I am very bad at being told what to do! When I follow the instructions, I lose weight (now, there's a surprise!). So, I have to do this for myself. Recently a good friend underwent bariatric surgery and, on talking to her, I discovered that she had been the weight I am now when she was my age (she is twenty years older than me). I do not want to have to go down that route (although I have great admiration for those who have) so I need to get a grip! Please help!