I am starting cd tomorrow and feel extremely nervous as I have been on this before and could not stick to it religiously. I need to lose the wight as I am trying to conceive. I am 6lbs overweight to be considered for ivf treatment for which I have an appointment next week.
I really need the motivation to keep on this and I hoping I can find it here:'-)
I don't just want to lose weight for the ivf appointment I actually want to lose it for life. I want to be my ideal weight (ie 8st 8lb)) as it has been along time since I've been that(10years). I am only 5ft tall
I've been married 10 years and yes you're right that's when I started piling on the weight. I have fluctuated between 11 and 12 stones for the last few years. But now I have had absolute enough and want to just lose it once and for all. I am tired of always having to be on 'diet'.i am tired of being referred to as being overweight in my social groups.
My friends aren't that big and therefore I find them to be unsupportive in my mission, they say things like 'start your diet tomorrow' or 'what's the point you always give up' and this has made me lose all confidence in being able to do it.
When I did it previously my work colleagues kept insisting it was dangerous and now that I've told them I'm starting again they're all giving me grief, just a couple of them who are also my friends are being supportive and have said they will help me keep to it.
My family are all big n therefore we all struggle. They're very supportive and when I lose weight they're very proud. But nights with the family is test of the will power as they eat to the extreme.
My husband is the oddest. He does on put on weight easily and in all these years he's never said anything but now he's applying the pressure. He's trying to say n do the right things but I end up upset over his comments.
So really in this journey I am looking for people to encourage and motivate me. I do not want to cheat at all. I don't think I can afford to as if my BMI is not 30 or under then I wont be allowed on the treatment and thats gonna have a knock back. Also I want to prove I am not a quitter.
If anyone does read this then thankyou in advance for reading my rant.
I really need the motivation to keep on this and I hoping I can find it here:'-)
I don't just want to lose weight for the ivf appointment I actually want to lose it for life. I want to be my ideal weight (ie 8st 8lb)) as it has been along time since I've been that(10years). I am only 5ft tall
I've been married 10 years and yes you're right that's when I started piling on the weight. I have fluctuated between 11 and 12 stones for the last few years. But now I have had absolute enough and want to just lose it once and for all. I am tired of always having to be on 'diet'.i am tired of being referred to as being overweight in my social groups.
My friends aren't that big and therefore I find them to be unsupportive in my mission, they say things like 'start your diet tomorrow' or 'what's the point you always give up' and this has made me lose all confidence in being able to do it.
When I did it previously my work colleagues kept insisting it was dangerous and now that I've told them I'm starting again they're all giving me grief, just a couple of them who are also my friends are being supportive and have said they will help me keep to it.
My family are all big n therefore we all struggle. They're very supportive and when I lose weight they're very proud. But nights with the family is test of the will power as they eat to the extreme.
My husband is the oddest. He does on put on weight easily and in all these years he's never said anything but now he's applying the pressure. He's trying to say n do the right things but I end up upset over his comments.
So really in this journey I am looking for people to encourage and motivate me. I do not want to cheat at all. I don't think I can afford to as if my BMI is not 30 or under then I wont be allowed on the treatment and thats gonna have a knock back. Also I want to prove I am not a quitter.
If anyone does read this then thankyou in advance for reading my rant.