sockmonkey
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I am still unclear as to whether your wife knows we are talking about her. I am not going to make any further contribution until I know that.
I agree. Partly because it seems nasty to talk about someone behind their back. Partly because SHE is the one who needs to take control of her own diet if any weight loss is ever going to stick. She is going to know what she is eating, she is the one who is going to know what questions she needs to ask. If this is all about her, surely it makes more sense that she speaks to us all directly? OP it is not YOU who needs to learn about A and B choices, it is your wife.
And because all to often in relationships, food, weight, and diets are used as weapons. I have seen and experienced relationships where food is used to control people. While I'm not for one moment claiming that this is the case here, but I don't see why OP doesn't ask his wife to speak to the forum directly.