ProPoints 17th times a charm!!!

[BoS83]

Sorry to hear about the gain Sorry to hear about the money situation too :/

Enjoy your night out though and have a good weekend yourself!

Thanks hon. Money situation is controlled but tight. :-( The joys of Christmas comin up.
Hope you had great weekend hon. x

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[BoS83]

So I weighed myself today-I know I shouldn't but I knew WI on Friday was bloating and a little bunged up. And I'm back to my magical 9.12. So I'm delighted. obviously I'll still go with official WI but it's given me hope for this week.

Went for tapas and cocktails Friday nite. Had brilliant girlie nite out.

Soooo... I'm calling everyone for help thigh specifically mammies!!
I'm looking for those fabric letters for kids bedrooms to spell out baby's name. I can find the ones that hav the wooden backing with fabric over them but I'm looking for the soft stuffed ones with no wood. They can be strung together and hung on end of cot or on wall of baby's room??? Thanks guys. xxx

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[brien77]

cant help you regarding the baby things but well done on the weight loss

 

[Jaly]

Well done on the loss Brona! xx Glad you enjoyed your girlie night out

As for the letters, maybe ebay? xx

Babyface - Fabric Alphabet Letters - Children's Bedding and Accessories

 

[Dubchick81]

If ya'v got a bit of time, make them More personal n exactly as u wang them xx

 

[BoS83]

Have had the most awful day at work. One of my coworkers completely flipped when I pointed out something he did wrong. And started screaming at me and standing over me pointing his fingers at me an inch from my face! And when I started shouting back at him he called our line manager down to the house and we had to hav an intervention!! I'm still shaking. He really scared me and now I feel like I'm walking on eggshells with him and everyone else incase they report me!! :-(

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[Mrsm79]

Have had the most awful day at work. One of my coworkers completely flipped when I pointed out something he did wrong. And started screaming at me and standing over me pointing his fingers at me an inch from my face! And when I started shouting back at him he called our line manager down to the house and we had to hav an intervention!! I'm still shaking. He really scared me and now I feel like I'm walking on eggshells with him and everyone else incase they report me!! :-(

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Oh my god, you poor thing that's disgusting for a man to do that. I'm not surprised you were scared were there any witnesses to say he flipped first? If there was I'm sure they'll stick up for you.

Hugs

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[Dubchick81]

Oh no Bróna what an ass! Am not surprised u hit a fright. I may hav cried. But I always cry ha
Have yerself a glass of wine relax for the evening xx

 

[BoS83]

Oh my god, you poor thing that's disgusting for a man to do that. I'm not surprised you were scared were there any witnesses to say he flipped first? If there was I'm sure they'll stick up for you.

Hugs

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No they walked in when the screaming got really loud but actually had to pull him away. He just seemed to see red when he got cross and cudnt hear or see anyone. My manager didn't 'blame' anyone but I still feel like its a black mark against my name. And all bcos he has serious issues with being told he's not done something right. Always has. :-(
Thanks for hug. x

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[BoS83]

Oh no Bróna what an ass! Am not surprised u hit a fright. I may hav cried. But I always cry ha
Have yerself a glass of wine relax for the evening xx

Oh I cried after the 'intervention' when my manager came back and talked to me on my own. It brings up a lot of issues when someone shouts at me that aggressively. And brings up a lot of bad memories. Which is why I panicked so much.
I'm still at work at mo. on til 9 and he's on over night. We're being nice as pie to each other! But I really feel I can't say anything to anyone or ask someone to do something anymore! And I already hav zero confidence when it comes to confronting people or dealing with issues like that. This has just totally set me back!
Gona just go home and go to bed for myself. :-( x

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[Dubchick81]

Oh I cried after the 'intervention' when my manager came back and talked to me on my own. It brings up a lot of issues when someone shouts at me that aggressively. And brings up a lot of bad memories. Which is why I panicked so much.
I'm still at work at mo. on til 9 and he's on over night. We're being nice as pie to each other! But I really feel I can't say anything to anyone or ask someone to do something anymore! And I already hav zero confidence when it comes to confronting people or dealing with issues like that. This has just totally set me back!
Gona just go home and go to bed for myself. :-( x

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Oh you poor love.. Can only imagine how frightening that was.. Would you not go speak to your supervisor and explain how frightened he made you?
You needn't feel like you've done anything hun.. You were defending yourself.. God, not good for him to be in that line of work if he has a temper like that..

 

[BoS83]

Oh you poor love.. Can only imagine how frightening that was.. Would you not go speak to your supervisor and explain how frightened he made you?
You needn't feel like you've done anything hun.. You were defending yourself.. God, not good for him to be in that line of work if he has a temper like that..

I know. He's usually not like that. He said its been building up and that he's complained about me before. Honestly I was speechless-I didn't know he felt like that and I don't know why he does. I consider myself someone who gets on with everyone. That hurt aswel.

My direct boss is off for weekend so it was her boss that came out. But I will say it to mine on Tuesday morn. I feel really uncomfortable now.

Aw look, like everything else, I'll prob push it to back of my mind and pretend it didn't happen. I'm very good at that... :-/

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[Mrsm79]

Don't just shrug it off it was very serious there's no way anyone should ever go for anybody like that, workplace, home, streets anywhere. Speak to your boss.

 

[BoS83]

Don't just shrug it off it was very serious there's no way anyone should ever go for anybody like that, workplace, home, streets anywhere. Speak to your boss.

I will say it to her but at the end of the day it's a vicious cycle-I don't hav the confidence to fight it, even if im upset that it's knocked my confidence...

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[Jaly]

Aw bless you! Am really sorry to hear that hun *hugs* hope tomorrow is a better day for you xx

 

[brien77]

Ah Brona, im so so sorry to hear what happened and how it has affected you. Big hugs coming your way from me

 

[Dubchick81]

I know. He's usually not like that. He said its been building up and that he's complained about me before. Honestly I was speechless-I didn't know he felt like that and I don't know why he does. I consider myself someone who gets on with everyone. That hurt aswel.

My direct boss is off for weekend so it was her boss that came out. But I will say it to mine on Tuesday morn. I feel really uncomfortable now.

Aw look, like everything else, I'll prob push it to back of my mind and pretend it didn't happen. I'm very good at that... :-/

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No you will not just forget it.. No way.. How dare he speak to anyone in such a tone that it frightens them. There is no way he should be allowed get away with making you feel threatened like that.
Don't have me come to Kildare young lady.. I will you kno....

 

[MrsLmc]

Oh my god thats terrible behaviour, no one should ever ever make you feel afraid!!! You need to talk to your boss about this. Did you not have this problem with him before a while back?

 

[BoS83]

I will talk to her Tuesday. But I'm working with him tomoro and Monday. I'm just gona hav to go in and see how I feel about working with him. we won't be on our own at any stage.
At the end if the day my back pain and IBS are both triggered by stress and my health will always come first so if I can't handle it I won't be putting up with it.
No I've never really liked him but havnt had anything like this before.
Thanks all of you for all your kind words. xxx

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[BoS83]

So I talked to my boss yesterday. Feel better after discussing my concerns re me and my job and also about him. He has been pulled up on it. So unless I want to make it official, we need to try and work together. I'm not working with him for a while so I'll see how I feel....

Havnt been eating great cos of it but even gona try and be good for nxt couple of days.

On waking nite at work tonite so have done out menu for nxt week or so though I'm goin home Thursday for few days (can't wait!!) so it will depend on what my mam cooks but she's usually not too bad with cooking... :-/

Goin out for dinner sat nite for my dads bday aswel but gona try and not go too crazy for it. Will prob use most of my dailies in wine for the few days anyway.

Really looking forward to the break....

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