I wondered if anyone would like to join me in listing their achievements to date, and their future goals? I have given my lists some heavy thought and consideration over the past couple of days and think that by posting them we can continue to support each other. Achievements so far *I have lost the weight of my almost 5 year old child! *I have got more than 2 pairs of bottoms that fit me. In fact, I have LOADS of bottoms that fit me now! *I can wear my wedding, engagement AND eternity rings all at the same time, and they are getting loose! *I have a lot more confidence. *I found my libido *I look in the mirror and don't feel disgusted. *I took my son swimming and didn't think twice about being in a costume. *I am learning to accept compliments. *My skin glows because I no longer glug crappy carbonated drinks. Water is the way ahead, and lots of it. *I feel more 'accepted' by others *The seatbelt wasn't an issue when I flew last month! Future goals *I want to be able to go into a shop and buy a size 14 knowing it will fit me without trying it on. *I want to go to my first mess function (hubby in forces) dressed to kill. *I want to be in photos! My son is almost 5 and there are so few pics of us together as I hate my pic being taken. *I want to reach my goal weight before Christmas, because we're going on our hols and I want to hit the US shops in a big bad way! Have always bought anything that fit, now I want to buy stuff I like! *I want to feel proud of myself. I am learning to like what I see but I need to work on it some more. *I'd love to be chatted up! Sounds silly, and I am VERY happily married, but I would love for someone else to think I was worthy of a try!