I am a woman determined to lose 15 lbs. soon. I mentioned the other day that I needed to lose a few lbs. because I felt fat. My husband spoke up and said, "Not fat...just plump." I was devastated. My goal now is to lose the 15 lbs and get back down to 135 for myself and to prove my point to him. Maybe I have my incentive now! Obviously, he does not understand tactfulness and tenderness.