fillymum
synful soul
Our elderly friend, I will call her Joan to make things easier, lives alone, is 85 years old and not that mobile, is dirty and untidy in her home bordering on slovenly.
She is immaculately clean in herself.
Some of you will remember that when she went into hospital at the beginning of this year it took Paul 10 days to clean her house. It was so bad he would not let me see it.
I have offered to go once a week and keep it tidy and clean for her but she has refused my help saying she has always been untidy. This is beyond untidy.
We have known her for 25 year and she has never been so bad.
I realise that given all the conditions it is difficult for her to keep up with all that needs doing.
We take her shopping every week and as I am already there it would take no time for me to keep it in order. I worry that she will have a bad fall falling on something she has just dropped on the floor. She fell on Monday and bruised herself badly.
I really need to do something about it, but what..............
She is immaculately clean in herself.
Some of you will remember that when she went into hospital at the beginning of this year it took Paul 10 days to clean her house. It was so bad he would not let me see it.
I have offered to go once a week and keep it tidy and clean for her but she has refused my help saying she has always been untidy. This is beyond untidy.
We have known her for 25 year and she has never been so bad.
I realise that given all the conditions it is difficult for her to keep up with all that needs doing.
We take her shopping every week and as I am already there it would take no time for me to keep it in order. I worry that she will have a bad fall falling on something she has just dropped on the floor. She fell on Monday and bruised herself badly.
I really need to do something about it, but what..............