Littleslimmingbee
Gold Member
Hey guys and girlies.
I was wondering about how you feel towards your weight and people commenting on it. When i was big i felt very cautious about doing / saying anything that would spark conversation or comments on my weight and often felt jelous if i heard someone complaining someone had made a comment on how small they were. Oh how i wish someone would comment on my small waist.
However, now, being smaller myself.. i am VERY sensitive. I feel uncomfortable if someone says ' oh you look so slim!' when i wear a new outfit, and i HATE it when my mum rubs her hands up and down the sides of my waist and says ' look how skinny you are!' even though i know she's only doing it cos shes so proud. . but my pet hate, the one that really gets me is that comment, accomanied by the enquisitive look - ' surely you dont want to loose anymore?!'
I was always a bit sensitive before when i was big, but most people have the common sense to not say anything- well its just unnaceptable in this day and age to tell somone they are big isnt it! we'd all be outraged.. but unexpectadly i am most sensitive now, and think it adds to my whole 'oh only a couple more pounds off would do it maybe?' and i was even more sensitive during my weight loss journey - fear of people not being able to tell i was loosing weight, or even worse.. commenting on it and making it obvious everyone knew how big i was!
just wondered how everyone else felt about it?
xxx
I was wondering about how you feel towards your weight and people commenting on it. When i was big i felt very cautious about doing / saying anything that would spark conversation or comments on my weight and often felt jelous if i heard someone complaining someone had made a comment on how small they were. Oh how i wish someone would comment on my small waist.
However, now, being smaller myself.. i am VERY sensitive. I feel uncomfortable if someone says ' oh you look so slim!' when i wear a new outfit, and i HATE it when my mum rubs her hands up and down the sides of my waist and says ' look how skinny you are!' even though i know she's only doing it cos shes so proud. . but my pet hate, the one that really gets me is that comment, accomanied by the enquisitive look - ' surely you dont want to loose anymore?!'
I was always a bit sensitive before when i was big, but most people have the common sense to not say anything- well its just unnaceptable in this day and age to tell somone they are big isnt it! we'd all be outraged.. but unexpectadly i am most sensitive now, and think it adds to my whole 'oh only a couple more pounds off would do it maybe?' and i was even more sensitive during my weight loss journey - fear of people not being able to tell i was loosing weight, or even worse.. commenting on it and making it obvious everyone knew how big i was!
just wondered how everyone else felt about it?
xxx