Thank you all so much!!!
We have been busy today buying and laying carpet in my 21 year olds house!! Found out I can do it much better than Phil!!! Not that I'm boasting - well yes actually I am!! But only because he's such a perfectionist ... that it's nice to be able to do something better than him!
My other 2 children are coming back tomorrow, from a holiday in Menorca with their dad, in the early hours of the morning - and we're having a party at the weekend for my birthday, my daughters 21st and Phil & my engagement. So fingers crossed for fine weather please, as I have lots of people coming, and hoping to do it in the back garden with a 6x3 metre gazebo!!!
Many thanks for all PM's and messages on here!