Husband's booked a surprise meal tonight but .......

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  1. DaisyDo

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    ......I'm at end of week SS and doing so well :(

    Here's the dilemma - I moaned at him recently that he never does anything for me. I'm 40 in a few weeks but had to cancel all celebrations as I'm having a back op next week.

    He's told me carriages at 8.30pm, babysitter booked, dress hanging up for me to wear....so not like him but I'm 100% focused on diet.

    If I say I don't want to go then he'll be upset at the effort he's gone to plus I can't complain about his lack of effort again. But I weighed myself this morning & my target for Monday is 4lb which I've hit today. Undo all that hard work?!

    What would you do?
     
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    I would go and only eat protein.

    He's put in so much effort - I would want to encourage and praise my OH if he did that!

    I know its hard whilst you're in the zone - but life goes on - you can't hide away and avoid things.

    I know lots of people will have other opinions - but if it was me - this is what I would do!
     
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    I agree, I would also go. How lovely that he's planned all this for you, a really nice suprise and if you eat protein and get back on the plan tomorrow hopefully you won't have a blip. Even if you do though, it's only one week.

    Enjoy yourself - as they say in the advert .... "You're worth it" !!! xx
     
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    You must go, he will never do anything for you again if you don't!
     
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    Ok gang I'm going - thinking steak & salad and NO WINE!

    Thank you all, made me feel less like a criminal!
     
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    Ooh. Good choice. Jealous!
     
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    i would go and eat carefully too. very sweet of him to do it - but i wonder does he not understand about the diet?
     
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    Well, a good job I went - 10 friends there, table full of 40th birthday balloons, amazing cake & flowers!!

    Had a lovely night, steak & salad & a couple of glasses if champagne, boy do I feel rough today!

    Weigh day tomorrow so hoping for 4lb.

    Fingers crossed!

    Thanks for all your comments.
     
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    Ahhh. Lovely.
     
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    Well Done for avoiding all the temptations last night.......I'm sure you won't have drifted too far off track, after all you made really good choices for your meal!

    Onwards & Downwards! :)
     
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    And the scales say.......5lb loss - wey hey!!
     
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    Well done that is fantastic xx
     
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