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Husband's booked a surprise meal tonight but .......

......I'm at end of week SS and doing so well :(

Here's the dilemma - I moaned at him recently that he never does anything for me. I'm 40 in a few weeks but had to cancel all celebrations as I'm having a back op next week.

He's told me carriages at 8.30pm, babysitter booked, dress hanging up for me to wear....so not like him but I'm 100% focused on diet.

If I say I don't want to go then he'll be upset at the effort he's gone to plus I can't complain about his lack of effort again. But I weighed myself this morning & my target for Monday is 4lb which I've hit today. Undo all that hard work?!

What would you do?
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I would go and only eat protein.

He's put in so much effort - I would want to encourage and praise my OH if he did that!

I know its hard whilst you're in the zone - but life goes on - you can't hide away and avoid things.

I know lots of people will have other opinions - but if it was me - this is what I would do!
I agree, I would also go. How lovely that he's planned all this for you, a really nice suprise and if you eat protein and get back on the plan tomorrow hopefully you won't have a blip. Even if you do though, it's only one week.

Enjoy yourself - as they say in the advert .... "You're worth it" !!! xx
You must go, he will never do anything for you again if you don't!


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DaisyDo said:
Ok gang I'm going - thinking steak & salad and NO WINE!

Thank you all, made me feel less like a criminal!
Ooh. Good choice. Jealous!
i would go and eat carefully too. very sweet of him to do it - but i wonder does he not understand about the diet?
Well, a good job I went - 10 friends there, table full of 40th birthday balloons, amazing cake & flowers!!

Had a lovely night, steak & salad & a couple of glasses if champagne, boy do I feel rough today!

Weigh day tomorrow so hoping for 4lb.

Fingers crossed!

Thanks for all your comments.


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Ahhh. Lovely.
Well Done for avoiding all the temptations last night.......I'm sure you won't have drifted too far off track, after all you made really good choices for your meal!

Onwards & Downwards! :)
Congratulations Great Loss :)

Start Weight: 17 st 9 lbs
Goal Weight: 11st 6 lbs
Start Date: 05/10/2011
Target Date: 30/03/2012
Lose Weight for my Wedding Day!

WK 1 - Lost 9lbs
Wk 2 - Lost 5.5 lbs
Wk 3 - Lost 9lbs
Wk 4 - Lost 3.8 lbs
Wk 5 - Lost 4.8 lbs
Current Weight 15st 7lbs
Total Loss so far 2st 2lbs

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