Minerva
...we're sinking deeper.
YAY! I'm so chuffed for you Andy! I was wondering recently as to how you were getting on - and found the answer here...! I'm happy that you are doing well! 
As for the question Rachel put out there... Personally I would never want to do abstinence again. It is not an answer - it is a 'quick fix' for something which we really can't get complacent about. There are no quick fixes in life, and if there are - they come at a huge cost.
I have proved to myself that I can lose weight on a more natural healthy eating plan with exercise (although more slowly), and have lost holiday weight under my own steam. If I can teach myself new things on the back of an extreme choice, then I can honestly say that I am proud of myself.
We need to learn patience. Things that are worth working for - will take a while. I need to remember this, and hopefully I will do as well as some of you - who have kept the weight off for 6 months or more!
As for the question Rachel put out there... Personally I would never want to do abstinence again. It is not an answer - it is a 'quick fix' for something which we really can't get complacent about. There are no quick fixes in life, and if there are - they come at a huge cost.
I have proved to myself that I can lose weight on a more natural healthy eating plan with exercise (although more slowly), and have lost holiday weight under my own steam. If I can teach myself new things on the back of an extreme choice, then I can honestly say that I am proud of myself.
We need to learn patience. Things that are worth working for - will take a while. I need to remember this, and hopefully I will do as well as some of you - who have kept the weight off for 6 months or more!