Non LT related but not asking housemates! So what do I do?!

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  1. LondonIrishOllie

    LondonIrishOllie Pensively Posting

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    Hey all,

    So I wrote in my thread that I randomly got asked for directions to the cinema that I was going to by a girl who was in city for weekend with Uni. Her friends were gone to pub and she didnt want to. I took her, chatted and watched movie.. yada yada gave her tour of London the next morning cos she hadnt seen much and towards the end she kissed me..

    she left to go back home, Plymouth, about 3 1/2 hours away and have been texting.. seems so nice! very very pretty, vietnamese so very small and slight, very cute!

    but she's far away.. what do I do.. waste of time to continue? seems very interested.. hmmmm any help?
     
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    up to you how you are feeling if its worth it to you then stay in touch and dont let distance be a problem
     
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    LovelyLauren My husband = My hero

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    I wana know did u do rudies??


    and to b honest hunni i do it... my fella lives in Windsor (palace guard) in the week, an is home every other weekend in liverpool..

    were about 4 hours form eachother but 100000000% in love and i wouldnt change it for the world..

    xxxxx
     
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    Hi Ollie, have u asked her if shes likely to be coming to London again soonish, then meet up again then?...(or near to London anyway). I wouldn't rule this out but maybe don't put all your eggs in one basket. You could find yourself with a great friend in Cornwall at the very least!
     
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    Yea, Adam I dunno, dont know her, hard to say!

    haha rudies?!!! we kissed!! a few times no rudies!! :p

    yea but the thing is was it always long distance with u?
     
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    heya, eggs for sure arent going in one basket, just dunno if it'd be ever likely to come to anything... She prob wont be..

    Lol been in a few relationships in past few years, always went alone, so wondering what its like to get advice for once!
     
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    Lol good boy, chivalry isnt dead!

    erm fr the first week no... then he went away for 6 weeks an didnt see him at all.. now i see him twice a month if im lucky... hes going to kenya soon for 6 weeks then afghan for 6 months.. so probly the worst long distance relation ship ever...

    weve been together a year tho, and are more in love than ever, every weekend i get soooo excited im closer to seein him, it keep it alive babe...

    depends if shes the one tho... an only time will tell.. xx
     
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    yea I guess.. we'll see.. thank u! xx

    great to hear who well you're doing in tough times.. will be all worth it in the end.. love ur profile pic.. looking great!
     
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    Its all worth it if there special enough hunni an never let anyone tell u otherwise..

    i have people tellin me im mad, an im sure peter does too, but i knw soon as hes home its all worth it...

    specially cos at the moment hes the only thing keepin me goin on this diet!!

    let me know how u get on anyways, an if anyone knows wha ur goin thru its me! so am here any time chuckie egg xx
     
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    Ollie go for it! Ask her if she'd like to come down for a visit and if she agrees, great! Spent some time together and then make your decision whether its worth pursuing. You don't want to have any regrets!! Sure whats the worst that can happen? She says no, well you won't see her again, but if she says yes? Who knows what could happen?! Good luck mate!!
     
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    I Think that you should text her etc.. And go with the flow.. Dont get too attached but if things are meant to work out then they will.. If not, they wont!! But give it ago and dont give up on the opportunity because of the distance!!
     
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    I would keep texting her and see how it goes, don't make distance a thing to make good things pass as ya will regret it. Find out when she is coming to London next and as ya said plymouth is only 3.5hrs away hardly across the ocean so offer to go and see her too. If its meant to be then it will happen but just enjoy it and take it easy. fingers crossed for ya hun!!
     
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    3 and a half hours is not far away!!!
    I am a firm believer in fate.... in the whole of london she asked you, a gentleman, she accompanied you and she gave you a kiss..... awwwwww tis like a movie script!!
    Some people travel accross the world to see people they have met online and never face to face.....
    Call her up, arrange another meeting, you both have nothing to loose... xxx (an keep us posted hehe!!)
     
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    ur story is fantastic and so great he's supporting you and so great you're making it work! thanks for advice and shoulder to lean on! xx

    yea you're right! I will ask her today.. who knows what will happen.. cheers mate..

    Think everyone is saying the same thing.. gonna have to ask her now!! thank u!

    heya Miss U.. from reading ur diary I know anything is possible.. guess lets see and find out! thanks honey!

    who knows, faith could be on my side.. yea it was all very very surreal and nothing Im used to! think people might have been scared of the bigger me! In over 2 years in London I think one person stopped me and asked the time and a german couple asked for directions.. not even close to a girl wanting to watch same movie as me!

    thanks for advice.. Ill ask her later.. xx
     
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    Hey Ollie, such a great and romantic way to meet, im sure whats for u wont go past u!
    Go for it, and remember u have only met her once so she mite not be the one for u but if u dont give it a go u will never find out!
    U defo need to arrange a meet soon though as u cant let time pass u by and u will have a better understanding of how u feel when u meet her again, maybe for a weekend and meet half way somewhere! keep us updated as to how things are goin x
     
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    heya,

    yea very romantic way to meet alright!! :)
    I know what you mean.. not getting hopes up etc etc, dont even know if I like her yet, I guess there's only one way to find out!

    Thank u x
     
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    Lol so she beat me to it.. Texted me 10 mins ago to say good morning and invited me down to hers some weekend.. aaaagh!
     
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    Aww! I feel really nosey reading these things, but hey I guess thats why you put them here!! I say you go with the flow and go and have fun at hers! I was in a long distance relationship for just over 3 years and it can be hard, but also good because you apreciate them more when you see them!

    Hope everything works out for you :) x
     
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    Whoooooooooooooo mighty mighty plymouth!!!!!!!!!! my home land! aahaha!! :)

    (havn't read all the posts so sorry if i am repeating things!)

    I think though you should just go with the flow - if you both like each other it will find someway of working :) long distance relationships arnt a bad thing :D:D
     
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    oh dear you could pop by for some peppermint tea with me and summergirl if you like lol. Well done laddy ..keep up this good work who knows "love is in the air..duh nuh nuh nuh nuh nuh love is in the airrrrrr.."( you know how it goes..i sing beautifully by the way like a cat in the rain:) ) Im so pleased for you - you deserve it partner!! xxxxx
     
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